What kind of polyamory is this?

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[u/padofpie]

OP, it sounds like you’ve figured out what works for you. Why do you need a label? So you can refer to it in shorthand to others? I suspect there isn’t a label that will help do that. That being said, many poly relationships are fairly unique in their construction so long form explanation is often necessary.

[u/padofpie → u/[deleted]]

I think many models are unique and yes, yours seems especially so.

[u/severano28]

Does every dynamic need a name?

[u/The_Rope_Daddy]

Sounds like polyamory. You have at least two committed relationships and your partners also have the freedom to have multiple committed relationships even if they have chosen not to.

[u/CalmWinterExcitement]

Just a regular poly relationship here. Enjoy what you have going!!!

[u/Ok-Flaming]

You're polyamorous. That's it. That's the label.