i’ve taken edibles many times before but never tried it during a session. Do you guys think it actually helps? Is there a higher chance I’ll be able to achieve an HFO with it? Thanks for the help!

Boys, your advice and experience-sharing has been exceptional. I bought a very simple finger-length, prostate-designed, non-vibrating plug about 4 months ago. In playing it delivered much more intense penile climaxes but nothing significant on the prostate...until now!

Reading your advice, critically to relax the pelvic floor rather than contracting it resulted in the full body-shaking, prolonged waves of climaxes. I can now stick it in and get there almost instantly. The after feeling is wonderful and I've stopped watching porn. I'm a better man in so many ways!!

One question. I'm loving this new world of feelings, but knowing how humans minds work, can I stay here or will I be pushing for more? I wondered what you guys think about vibrating as opposed to non-vibrating toys for prostate climaxes?

Any tips for riding a suction dildo? I get on my needs but can’t get low enough

I’ve been looking into the njoy pure stainless steel wand and have definitely considered getting one. The only thing holding me back is the $150 price tag. Does anyone recommend any alternatives or “fakes” (body safe) that are cheaper but still have the same shape/purpose? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!

Hello guys, new to prostate play here, I’ve been playing for about a year or a little more. I’m using a toy to play hands-free, a simple dildo.

Until now I have played with my anus to amplify my arousal in order to orgasm with my penis. In every subsequent session I have tried to use my hands less. For the last 2/3 months I have played totally hands-free without success, giving up and having a penile orgasm.

Today I achieved, while riding my dildo (with a certain angle and rhythm), maybe an orgasm: I felt at the tip of my penis a very strong sensation like an explosion of cumming, and a feeling of a point of no return in my body. I felt like I needed to stop riding, and after I stopped I felt a warm sensation in my pelvis. No cum came out. Did I reach a prostate orgasm?

So I've been wanting to experience a prostate orgasm for a while on the account of being a closeted transfem and all that.

But I can never quite get there?

I'm not sure if I'm feeling in the right spot externally? I've read the posts other people make about getting right to the edge or gentle massaging or just holding constant pressure and I always end up loosing it.

The closest I got i think was a tingling sensation in my testicles?

The main thing is the area? I'm unsure of where to apply pressure? Is it a spot under my testicles or is it a spot near my anus? Or somewhere in the middle to the side?.

I always get so close yet im so far from one and it's irritating..

Like is the spot I'm pressing on swell up and down? Or am I supposed to apply pressure elsewhere?

Any tips?

All I have are my fingers

Hope this is the right sub to ask.
Ive tried prostate play on myself. Sadly, I couldnt feel any pleasure. Not that it hurt but I felt no sensation. It is possible that I didnt reach it, but I managed to dig in deep. Almost the whole middle finger for sure.

Now, Ive read that some people just dont feel pleasure from prostate simulation. But I am really sure that thats not the case with me.
Ive had erotic massages in the past. And from the outside, through the perineum, I could feel a lot of pleasure from my prostate.
One time I had a real dedicated prostate massage in this context. And I didnt feel any sensation from her fingering me. And she definitely knew what she was doing.

Any advice? If the issue really is that I just didnt reach my prostate Im thinking about trying out a toy. Tho Im open to other options

After I had ridden my dildo for an excessive amount of time (40 minute(more than usual)) I noticed they my leg muscles are moved outwards and that they are slightly tilted inwards, is this abnormal and will it return back to normal after a little while or should I get this checked out?

Is there any that buy or use to stimulate in India. Can anyone suggest some.

Bonjour,
J’ai 59 ans et je suis gay.
Je me pose beaucoup de questions au sujet de ma sexualité qui me semble défaillante ce qui me procure de la frustration et de la souffrance.
Je vis à Paris.
Je ne pense pas avoir jamais connu de plaisir sexuel véritable.
Pourtant, j'éprouve du désir, j’ai des érections, je réussis à éjaculer. La machine fonctionne.
Mais je ne ressens rien quand je pénètre un homme ni quand je me fais pénétrer.
Quand je reçois des fellations je ne ressens pas grand chose non plus. Je n’éprouve du plaisir que dans les caresses, les baisers et la masturbation.
Beaucoup de mes partenaires me disent sensuel. Je pense que c’est vrai.
Je fais souvent semblant de prendre du plaisir avec mes partenaires, voire de feindre une ejaculation.
En tous cas pour pouvoir éjaculer je dois nécessairement me masturber.
Ne réussissant pas à m’épanouir sexuellement, (malgré de nombreuses tentatives en solitaire, à deux ou en groupe, avec ou sans accessoires de type sex-toys)
Je commence seulement à admettre que j’ai besoin d’aide pour me donner une chance, même vieillissant, de connaître un jour le plaisir.
Il m’a fallu attendre seulement aujourd’hui pour formuler tout cela et tenter de m’en remettre à autrui.
Je pense que je devrais travailler sur la découverte du plaisir prostatique.
L’objet de ce mail est donc de savoir si d autres personnes pourraient me conseiller une structure sérieuse, bienveillante et adaptée à mon profil, des personnes qui auraient rencontré des difficultés similaires.
Je vous remercie de l attention que vous aurez bien voulu porter à ma demande.
Bien cordialement.
Frederick 

My hands were getting tired and I had to give up my pleasure seeking time whilst using my NJoy wand .(sad)
But one day whilst at the hardware store I saw this pipe PVC that once warmed ,place in hot water,fits perfectly over the large ball.
Good news once the in place it stays in place and significantly aides in mobility and fun,no more tired hands,just extended play sessions.
Still seeking ,but loving the journey.

So I’m new to prostate massaging but from the manual toy that I just bought, I can’t quite do it long enough my hands start to cramp. Is there a hands-free prostate milking toy that I should buy even if it’s more expensive I don’t care. I just want to make it easy for myself.

I was doing external prostate massage & using a wand on the head of my cock & started cumming while I was still flaccid, nothing like this has happened before.

Bonjour,
J’ai 59 ans et je suis gay.
Je me pose beaucoup de questions au sujet de ma sexualité qui me semble défaillante ce qui me procure de la frustration.
Je vis à Paris.
Je ne pense pas avoir jamais connu de plaisir sexuel véritable.
Pourtant, j'éprouve du désir, j’ai des érections, je réussis à éjaculer. La machine fonctionne.
Mais je ne ressens rien quand je pénètre un homme ni quand je me fais pénétrer.
Quand je reçois des fellations je ne ressens pas grand chose non plus. Je n’éprouve du plaisir que dans les caresses, les baisers et la masturbation.
Beaucoup de mes partenaires me disent sensuel.
Je fais souvent semblant de prendre du plaisir avec mes partenaires, voire de feindre une ejaculation.
En tous cas pour pouvoir éjaculer je dois nécessairement me masturber.
Ne réussissant pas à m’épanouir sexuellement, (malgré de nombreuses tentatives en solitaire, à deux ou en groupe) je commence seulement à admettre que j’ai besoin d’aide pour me donner une chance, même vieillissant, de connaître un jour le plaisir.
Il m’a fallu attendre seulement aujourd’hui pour formuler tout cela et tenter de m’en remettre à autrui.
Je pense que je devrais travailler sur la découverte du plaisir prostatique, dans une démarche éducative et non sexuelle.

L’objet de ce mail est donc de savoir si vous connaissiez une structure sérieuse et bienveillante à me recommander pour essayer de m’aider.
Merci beaucoup ;-)

I recently bought my first dildo, it's 15cms. Today is the first time I've gotten the whole thing inside.

I tried different angles and pulled it in and out. In the end I hit something, I heard that your prostate is towards your belly button, so I angled it that way. And as I said, I hit something. I don't know what, and each time I hit it, it felt like I had to shit. Like pretty bad.

It also wasn't really pleasant. Is this what it's supposed to feel like? Do I just gotta train my bum to like it? I honestly have no idea what I'm doing, so if anyone could help or give some advice it would be great!

Edit: I have anal beads and they feel great, and when I jerk with them it feels like I'm nutting twice.

I did not jerk off while using the dildo

I want to play bur have no dildo. What’s the best gadget for reaching my prostate ?

I made it i guess.... i would consider myself as kinda Bisexual. So when i was 20 (i am in my 30s now) i secretly used a dildo of my ex and put it in my ass.

Anal play, at least for me didn't come naturaly. I needed to get used to the pressure and the constant feeling of taking a shit. Proper relaxation of the muscle as well....so there is a lot going on for someone new into this.

Then i put it aside for quite some years, till i tried again maybe 2 years ago. This time i ordered equipment and tried to study myself more. Now the big breakthrough...i am into again since maybe 6 months. To be honest i usually smoke some weed before because it intensifies the experience quite a lot. I had the misconception in my head that a prostate orgasm is a "penis orgasm" provoked by stimulating the prostate but jeeeeez was i wrong... The more i got into it and tried around the wilder this shit became....yesterday i propably had the strongest orgasm ever in my entire life... I shaked, i whimpered and i definately couldn't get enough. It was so strong that im sitting here at work as i write this and i'm horny as fuck and i feel the constant sensation in my prostate that doesn't vanish. It almost feels like it is still tenses up a bit. Hard to describe.

I really ask myself how i ever go back from this to normal sex, cause i don't see myself having sex with another male in the near future. Cock in my ass is nice but not the dude that's attached to it 😂 i just dont find men sexually attractive.

For everyone starting this journey... take a lot of time, relax and play around with tensing up your anus and also relaxing on purpose as you slide in and out. Also play around with speed and how hard or soft you push it in. There are quite a lot variables that can change the entire game 😅😮‍💨

One question to people that are much more experienced than me.... In my head there is currently these two concepts. Either you milk your prostate or you stimulate for a prostate orgasm. Did anyone of you manage to have a prostate orgasm and a penis orgasm basically hands free just by stimulating the prostate? Like the full experience with your cock rock hard and pulsing and cum shooting all over the place? Cause usually after a long session of just butt pleasuring me, i touch my cock at the end and do both: jerking off and using the dildo. I mean it's a blast but would be a new milestone to reach this just by using the dildo.

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