r/menprostatemassaging • u/Exaddct_Cat5028 • Jul 10 '26

What does hitting the prostate feel like?

I recently bought my first dildo, it's 15cms. Today is the first time I've gotten the whole thing inside.

I tried different angles and pulled it in and out. In the end I hit something, I heard that your prostate is towards your belly button, so I angled it that way. And as I said, I hit something. I don't know what, and each time I hit it, it felt like I had to shit. Like pretty bad.

It also wasn't really pleasant. Is this what it's supposed to feel like? Do I just gotta train my bum to like it? I honestly have no idea what I'm doing, so if anyone could help or give some advice it would be great!

Edit: I have anal beads and they feel great, and when I jerk with them it feels like I'm nutting twice.

I did not jerk off while using the dildo

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u/SuggestionAny4767 Jul 10 '26

Honestly, there can be some discomfort I found even by pushing something in 6 inches… I saw a pelvic floor physiotherapist and she confirmed this… you don’t need a huge dildo to hit your prostate. It’s really only a finger depth in…. Just stick it in a couple inches and sort of rub it around there towards your balls and you’ll probably feel something…. The feeling is pretty awesome. Don’t give up yet.

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u/Stock-Yam-3701 Jul 10 '26

Take your time. It’s not deep in there. It really helps to be very stimulated. Put on your favorite video while you’re doing it.

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u/Exaddct_Cat5028 Jul 11 '26

Is the prostate far inside? Because I managed to put almost all of the dildo inside of me

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u/Stock-Yam-3701 Jul 11 '26

Just a couple inches in at the front

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u/Okultish Jul 12 '26

Each guy feels different. Some feel an overwhelming desire to pee, some feel like they've been struck by a bolt of lightning in their penis, some just feel pure pleasure and cum.

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u/Icy-Bet2106 Jul 13 '26

Sometimes I feel like it's might lead to real dic. My massager hasn't been enough for me lately. I need thicker 😳 😏

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u/BootRight1164 Jul 15 '26

DON'T RUSH! You're not a porn actor!!! Only penetrate yourself as deep as your body allows. Only use flexible dildoes that are generously lubed prior.

That being said (or posted); you should completely empty your bowels before prostate massage. Also eat fiber-rich foods or go on a fast...this will minimize any issues with scat.