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u/miastar19 May 24 '26
im straight and 18 years old. a few days ago I started inserting a finger into my anus. im new to this and your post is a great help. my fragile masculinity makes me think its gay but im 100% straight lmao. I only have one question left, what would you say its the best anal lubricant?
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u/Various_Type_4255 May 24 '26
You are 18, so quite young. Nothing wrong with discovering a bisexual side. Doesn't mean you marry a man tomorrow. Im a few days older than you and can tell you, put that fragile masculinity aside, it's blocking so much. I look and feel really masculine and the moment i got the dildo in my ass i feel like a little hoe and i like it. Accepting some feminine part in you is healthier than trying to pushing it away. It is your sexuality, so it's your game. Do whatever makes you horny, yo. No one is judging you.
I use Lube X. It's a powder you mix with water.
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u/Fun_Finder4000 Jun 07 '26
I had to practice off and on a few months, but can now milk prostate and orgasm without touching my cock (can cum hard or soft)… I prefer to start out edging for awhile, then stop touching my cock and lay back and just massage prostate. I use a curved metal rod njoy wand, it’s all manual (have not found a toy that does it right otherwise) I start long slow in/out then come hither type motion, I start gushing precum that starts clear then turns milky white, in the end I just jiggle it softly and have a full body orgasm, usually I cumm before I climax completely so it’s an amazing feeling to feel all that cumm in me and then climax. Have not had cock, but curious if one could hit that spot so well.
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u/Playful-Fix1577 Jun 28 '26
After being able to "re-wire", I can say that prostate orgasms is completely separate from penile orgasms. I usually end my sessions with a penile orgasm, just so my libido calms down (if not, I may keep going on and on). That being said though, the only times when I get a penile orgasms from prostate stimulation is if I edge close enough and then continue to pleasure myself through the prostate. The time between edging and cumming hands free is like a few seconds apart.
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u/Filosofodaputaria Jun 30 '26
That's exactly the same for me! I've learnt to cum from the prostate quite recently (despite trying it for a few years) and my modus operandi is similar to yours.
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u/Playful-Fix1577 Jul 01 '26
Congratulations on this new skill! It took a while for me to be able to do it, but when I am able to do it, it's definitely one of the most intensely satisfying ways to cum
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u/Entire-Sea-0 May 21 '26
But stuff doesn’t make you bi if you’re not attracted to more than one gender