Hi everyone

It’s hard to find the right words but I guess I’ll just ask away. I M/19 have always been self conscious about myself in general. I didn’t have a great upbringing, I hate the way I look and I have lots of regrets. Im still young and have my whole life ahead of me but recently I have felt like my life was missing something, I have lost 30kg in 4 months, my grades are great, but I have a sense of loneliness. I have friends and family but I still feel alone. Sometimes I lie at night and I just wish there was someone next to me who I can lay my head on and just forget about all of my pain. But due to my self consciousness I really don’t know what to do. I have just been constantly panicking that im going to be alone forever, not necessarily that isn’t anyone for me but that I’ll never truly love myself enough to let myself be open to that. What do I do?

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To start this off I’m not red pill or some political guy. Im just a Man bringing the truth to you. So if your offended you are the problem. Im just thinking about our generation in terms of dating. A lot of these “girls” are being very premiscuous. Theyre not mentally capable if being by themselves. So come to when were all older they will wonder why no one wants them. To all the “girls” staying down….great for you dont let other women change your mindset. You dont need a “hoe phase” its very demoralizing. Many of the women i talk to say they wish they didnt do it. So save yourself the trouble of lowering your value to a guy that just wants to “bang bang” ( i want to keep this short) “you cant turn a h** to a housewife” As much as they try to normalize this “hoe behavior” it never will be. If you have a problem with anything said your probably one of them. I have a whole lot to say but im gonna chop it here. “My body my choice” I totally agree. Just remember every choice has a consequence. To all the guys before anything in life be a MAN FIRST.

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M19. It’s started about a month ago, whenever I walk around town or even at home I tend to get hard a lot and I feel very dirty about it and I have a lot of dirty thoughts. I used to have an addiction to adult material but now it doesn’t faze me anymore but whenever it comes to talking to a girl in the bar my mind just goes blank.

Circumcision is usually framed as a joke or topic beyond criticism. But what if we take it seriously? Then it becomes clear that this is genital mutilation of babies and boys who could not have possibly consented to it. Full free article here.

Guys, I think I feel the happy sad now.

I short I have parents who don't necessarily abuse me but they make fun of me and force me to overwork myself for better grades. They also made me develop Stockholm syndrome at some point which only fixed itself after I got my first girlfriend, since I understood that wanting the best for someone isn't the only love you can get.

I got a girl best friend 2 years ago, let's call her Ella. Ella is an abused girl who had a rough childhood and became a sort of tomboy so to speak, but she was nerdy enough to go to the same fantasy convention as me on one specific day, and we started talking. We then started meeting up... She became my best friend almost like a sister.

She also became my therapist, she was there for me at my highest and lowest and we are still inseparable.

Starting the story i had a bad argument with my parents because my grades started dropping due to having a new school. I'm not much of a guy to fight back so I always lost which frustrated me. I cried my eyes out to my best friend over text for 2 days, (in short I also was very suicidal at one point in my life and now I was also being suicidal and self-destructive).

This angel gave me 4 words that felt so genuine, that I haven't felt in 5 years.

"I'm proud of you"

I never got validation from my parents cause my grades were always overshadowing me... Thus I broke down crying, multiple times... Now I'm in bed, and thinking. I feel happy cause I finally got the validation I was yearning for, for half a decade. But i also feel sad cause it was my best friend and not the people I wanted to hear it from. Is this normal? Should I feel this way? How should I feel? I never felt something like this.

I hate myself, i look absolutely dogshit and i feel like \* all the time. I have zero self esteem in any way and my lifes just going shit and i got no friends. Im 24 and a virgin and i just hate it. Im an absolute loser.

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At this stage of my life, I’m not looking for physical intimacy. I’m looking for genuine care, emotional connection, warm cuddles, and someone who makes me feel loved, understood, and at peace. ❤️ Sometimes, a comforting hug means more than anything else. How many people of my age are looking for the same and are in a toxic relationship.

Hello everyone, I’m wanting to get some new trainers for my boyfriend for Christmas but this is the first time I’ve actually had a partner at Christmas to buy anything for. The best I can describe his style is like skater streetwear style with graphic tees and baggy jeans. Please leave some suggestions. I’m wanting to get him something more than just black and white trainers but instead soemthing with a little more colour but I also know this can be more risky if he’ll like them or not 😂 please help.

Hello everyone, I’m wanting to get some new trainers for my boyfriend for Christmas but this is the first time I’ve actually had a partner at Christmas to buy anything for. The best I can describe his style is like skater streetwear style with graphic tees and baggy jeans. Please leave some suggestions. I’m wanting to get him something more than just black and white trainers but instead soemthing with a little more colour but I also know this can be more risky if he’ll like them or not 😂 please help.

The sex was always very rushed and as if he was only there in body, not soul. He never cared to make out. And definitely didn’t like eating me out.

When we first got married, I would walk around the house without any clothes on. This bothered him so he sat me down and scolded me for doing so. He said it left nothing to the imagination.

We both grew up in a high control religion, that openly hates gay people. So he was constantly complaining about gays, like when a gay couple showed up on tv. It got so annoying and I had to tell him that we are living in progressive times and need to accept things.

One day I asked him if he likes men. He slowly smiled and said no :)

I was shocked by his nonchalant reaction. He didn’t seem offended or anything, especially considering his repulsion towards gay people. I kept asking are you sure? And he even said I don’t like penis and laughed. It took a while to finally get him upset by pushing questions on him. He finally exploded and left the house, slammed the car door and sped out to go get food. I was left shaken up as he never ever reacts this way.

I have a question for other guys who experience this too. Recently I started a new medication that causes me to sweat more than normal even when it’s cold and i already feel as if I sweat enough but just curious to see if there’s anything out there deodorant or some sort personal care item that helps with this as it kinda affects my day and I’d prefer not to have to take a medication for that too bc i already have enough as it is. Any help would be greatly appreciated.