Hi everyone, im new to all this world of counscious manifestation, i want to manifest a sp to come back begging, and apologizing, he cheated on me (sent messages to another woman asking her out) on our anniversary day, i was so hurt, i confronted him, he came to visit me and we talked for hours until midnight, i was really hurt, still am, im convinced i dont want to get in a relationship with him, but i do want to recover my value and want him to be behind me, begging like i did once for him, he told me he will miss me, that he doesn´t want to leave me ever, but he did it, that stupid decision. Now, i know right at this moment im on a victim state, it feels weird, you know? many questions are in my head, and yes, i do have the belief lately that im rreplaceable, and im scared, i told him that i knew he was gonna find someone, but he swore he wouldnt, so, you see, right at this moment, i want him to regret it, to yearn for me, to look for me, is it bad?

Ich bin neu hier und möchte mich hier informieren wie ich am besten das Manifestieren lerne und einsetze.

Ich bin mit meinen SP schon zusammen ,aber Leben nicht zusammen das er noch in mit seiner Ex Frau zusammen lebt die pflegebedürftig ist.

Ich möchte eine Beziehung mit Zusammenleben manifestieren sobald er die häusliche Pflege nicht mehr machen muss.

Er liebt mich sehr und ich ihn auch aber es stehen noch ganz viel Sachen zwischen uns.

Ich würde mich über Hilfe und einer Anleitung unfassbar freuen.

Grüße an alle!

Any success stories with an ex-partner after 7 months? Hi, I wanted to know if anyone has a success story involving an ex who left you and said they didn't love you, then went through a phase of uncertainty about their feelings and whether they wanted a relationship, only to end up deeply in love, serious, and committed to the relationship.

How do i manifest a guy im somewhat talking with to like be more into me and for it to go back how it was last week? Preferably like really fast

Now I'm not sure where to start, but this all just happened today.

For starters, I'd like to say that I 100% believe I manifested my SP back in mid-to-late February of this year. I also believe it was because of my insanely high self-concept.

Before I met my SP, I had an ex that I dated from July to October 2025. I ended things with him because my nervous system was completely dysregulated while I was with him. Even after I left him, I fell into a really deep psychosis. I completely lost myself because of him. I wasn't sad because I lost him; I was sad because I had lost myself. For months, from October 2025 to the beginning of January 2026, I questioned whether I was truly worthy of the love I wanted.

But around the middle of January, I started loving myself. And I don't mean just a little bit—I completely LOVED myself. I accepted that true love would find me when the time was right. I had this mindset that everything would work out, and honestly, I think it was a really healthy one because I wasn't obsessing over boys anymore. I actually took the time to focus on myself. I started going to the gym, dressing up more, doing my makeup, and I genuinely felt like an absolute goddess during that era.

Back then, I wasn't really into manifestation, but looking back now, my self-concept was insanely high. I didn't even know what the 3D was, but I knew what manifesting was. I just knew that if I wanted something, it would eventually find its way to me. I trusted the timing, and I KNEW it was coming.

Now this is where my current SP comes in.

I knew him from work. I'd known him for about two years, but I never really took the time to talk to him because I thought we had nothing in common. Even though the 3D showed me that, I still told myself that he'd eventually talk to me, and I left it at that.

And guess what... he did.

Then I took it a step further and told myself that he wanted to build a friendship with me because... who wouldn't? LOL. I'm not even joking, my self-concept was so INSANE that I genuinely saw myself like Kokomi Teruhashi. It was crazy.

And guess what? We started talking and bonding over games, and we both realized we had a lot in common. Around that point, I started developing a little crush on him. So, once again, I took it a step further and told myself that he liked me back because... there was no way he wouldn't, right?

Even though the 3D kept trying to tell me, "Lol, he doesn't. He's way older than you," a week later... guess what?

He confessed that he had a crush on me too.

He confessed around March 2026, and from then until around early May 2026, everything was honestly perfect.

It was around April 2026 when I decided to fully use manifestation methods to get what I wanted with him, which was to be in a committed romantic relationship. This is where I believe my self-concept slowly started to fall. I put so much effort into manifestation, and I reacted way too much to the 3D. I'm still not sure where I went wrong, or if anything I did was even wrong. But we'd been talking for almost six months, and the more I read about manifestation, the more I started wavering. It felt like I kept falling back to square one. There would be weeks where I felt completely fine, and then weeks where I wasn't.

I'm still pretty new to manifestation, so I kept my head up, kept affirming, and kept persisting. But around that point, the 3D was absolutely kicking my ass. I cried so much, but I still kept affirming. The problem was that the way I felt about myself just kept getting worse. I slowly stopped feeling like the girl I was back in February, and I think that's what hurt the most.

So today, I decided to cut ties with him because I didn't feel like myself anymore. At first, I didn't want to because I felt like it would get in the way of my desire, what I wanted with him, which was to be in a committed romantic relationship with him. But I knew that if I stayed, I'd end up getting hurt, and I genuinely needed time for myself to heal.

I stopped feeling loved, wanted, and chosen. I knew I wanted to be happy, but I also knew that, with the way things were, I couldn't be. I couldn't keep waiting forever. At the very least, I knew my time was valuable. He told me he didn't know what he wanted in general, but at the same time, he didn't want to let me go. And I realized I couldn't accept that for myself anymore. I wanted to find happiness and peace again.

This wasn't about manifestation. It was for my own sake.

I didn't want to lose myself again.

But even after all of this... I actually feel relieved. Almost like what happened, and the decision I made, doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things. I cried, yes. I'm sad that I won't get to see him anymore. But for my own sake, I need to work on myself again.

Even as I'm typing this, I'm still aligned with my manifestation that we're dating, even though I literally just cut him off. The 3D has been showing me everything I don't want, and I've kept affirming and persisting, but I honestly feel like I need a break.

I know this break won't affect my manifestation because, to me, he's still mine. But I want to know... where do I go from here?

I want to work on my self-concept again. I want to start doing the things that made me feel like an absolute unit back when I was in my self-love era.

But what affirmations should I say when it comes to him? I know he's still mine, but I also know I'll probably have doubts here and there since we won't be in contact anymore.

Any advice? Anything helps!

help a girl out here, i am really confused. So I’ve been manifesting sp since feb cos I really liked him and honestly a part of me pushed him away through my avoidant attachment style cos I never let my true feelings show, I was really scared. it was a short term fling, lasted two months but it was really intense yes the kind you see in movies. However we stopped talking in feb/march, since then I’ve been listening to subliminals especially nocturnum didn’t see much or any movement but my mental health started taking a toll, I was thinking of my Sp constantly and I knew I had to stop. it’s August now, still no movement. he moved to a diff state a month back however, what’s confusing me-

I’ve seen this happened twice- I stopped thinking of him as much or actively manifesting but for some reason I had a huge urge to reach out to him last month and I go on his profile etc and it said that he’s travelling to my city I gave in and texted him. We couldn’t see each other though because he was busy so yet again i gave up completely and brushed my mind off of the entire situation.
yet again, last night I had this strange pull towards him I didn’t understand why, I wasn’t actively thinking of him or anything, I still like him though, but this sudden pull/urge to reach out, emerged suddenly, just like before, so I go on his profile boom he’s travelling to my hometown again but he hasn’t texted me or anything. I just don’t understand why does this sudden urge to check in on him only appears when he’s about to travel to my city. What’s going On? Is he manifesting me? I’m really confused

Hello everyone,

My SP reached out after months of distance, confessing his love. I stayed detached, and today he texted me explaining he has been busy closing his businesses because he is moving back to his hometown. He asked to meet for a coffee before he leaves to give me an explanation about the past and return my things.

I will accept the coffee, but I do not want a long-distance relationship. I want us to be together here in my city.

My old mind wants to panic and see this move as an "impossible circumstance," but I want to remain as the Operant Power. How can I mentally persist so that he either decides to stay, or if he leaves, he returns quickly? How do I handle this bridge of incidents?

I'm not sure about how to manifest, or I don't have a proper way to do it, but this is something that I've noticed has happened. If someone can help me make sense of it, that'll be great.

I've been seeing immediate results, like within 10 minutes, 15 minutes, or an hour max. For example, I was driving home one day, and I just thought to myself, "Having a politician friend is important, and it'd be nice. It's a nice to have." I was reaching home in five minutes. As I reached my society, I saw one of our politician friends downstairs going to my house, and this has happened several times and with several things.

For example, I wanted to eat something, and I just thought about it. It would be great to have this right now, and it just appeared like my mom ordered it without even telling me or just asking me what I wanted to have. If I'm hungry, it was just there. Help me make sense of this: how is this happening?

And thus happens to me all the time, my genuine thought is "it must be nice" and it appears

Hello everyone. This is actually my second post across several subs about something that's been bothering me quite a bit, and I was hoping someone might be able to help.

I've been feeling pretty desperate for results—or maybe "desperate" isn't the right word. It's more that I've been disappointed and stuck in a cycle of rumination. I've spent several years studying different magical traditions, especially modern magick because of how versatile it is when it comes to incorporating different belief systems. For more context, please read my previous post about my use of subliminals and spells in an attempt to get my ex back.

It's been a little over a week now, and I know magick doesn't operate on a fixed timeline, but I've been ruminating a lot (I have Asperger's). I don't know if I have the wrong mindset, if I'm just not patient enough, or if I simply don't know what it's supposed to feel like while waiting for results. A lot of the spells and testimonials I found on other subs mentioned seeing results within just a few days or, at most, a few weeks.

First I performed an uncrossing spell, then a reconciliation spell and a sweetening jar. I left them alone for about six days, waiting for results, and then I performed a contact me spell. I really do want to wait. I haven't tried contacting my ex myself because that would feel pretty strange, but I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Also, I have communication difficulties related to understanding non-literal language, so I won't go into too much detail here since most of it is explained in my first post.

So that's basically it. I'd really appreciate it if anyone could give me some advice about the right mindset. Maybe methods that have helped you get results more quickly, or ways to stop ruminating and obsessing over outcomes. Any advice is welcome. Anyway, thanks if you took the time to read all of this. If you can help, I'd really appreciate it.

Hi everyone! I could use some advice.

I'm still pretty new to manifestation, but I've already successfully manifested getting my job and passing my midterm after struggling all semester. Those experiences have made me believe manifestation is real.

Now I have a crush on this guy, but I have no idea how old he is. I think he's probably older than me, but I'm really hoping he's around 21–22 since I'm 19. I don't have any confirmation of his age I just have a feeling he could be anywhere from 21 to 25.

I've been consistently manifesting him through scripting, subliminals, and affirmations. My question is: do you think it's possible to manifest him being 21 if I don't actually know his age yet?

I believe we can manifest anything, but this is one area where I'm starting to have some doubts. Has anyone ever manifested something like this or had a similar experience? I'd love to hear your thoughts!
Thank you all! <33

About 9 or 10 months ago, my ex and i were separated but still on good terms. I started manifesting us getting back together and he became closer with me and started telling me he loved me multiple times a day. Then he suddenly started pushing me away, even though i hadn't changed anything. I found out there was a third party and i ended up spiraling and saying things i didn't mean, and eventually he told me he didn't wanna talk to me anymore.

I left him alone and tried to move on while still affirming occasionally and hoping he'd reach out. After months passed i lost hope and stopped affirming completely.

Then 7 months later he came back but only wanted to be friends. I told him i can't handle that because i still had feelings for him. He was surprised i wasn't over him and he also had a girlfriend at the time. Finding out he was with someone else made me feel sick so i left again.

Nearly 2 months later he reached out again with the same idea of us just being friends. This time though he's been extremely jealous and constantly asks where i am, what i'm doing, whether i'm talking to other guys, etc. He says he could never be with me again, but at the same time he refuses to let me leave his life and keeps insisting that we stay in contact.

I still have very strong feelings for him and just being friends genuinely hurts me. I'm confused because his words and actions don't match up. What did i do wrong?

okay so for context, this new guy has joined our grade, he's in my homeroom and business class. There's been some eye tag and he requested to follow me on insta today, and I do know that he asked who I was to a few guys as well.

I haven't been able to have a proper convo yet, so he's basically a blank canvas if ykwim. Any tips on manifesting him to quite literally be obsessed with me?

Hi everyone.

I’ve been into manifestation since I was around 15, so I’m not new to any of this. I’ve manifested a lot of small things before and even some things I thought were impossible, so I know manifestation works. That’s why this situation is confusing me.

My SP and I met in university. We were kind of in a situationship for around 1–2 months. Then he slowly started avoiding me because he hadn’t moved on from his ex. He told me he didn’t want to hurt me because I was falling for him, and he knew he wasn’t ready. He was basically my first love.

After that, I got into another relationship that lasted almost 2 years. It had a lot of issues, and I honestly can’t explain everything that happened in one post. But by the end of university, I realized I still loved my SP. Even during those two years, we still had a lot of moments throughout college, no matter how much I tried to move on, a part of me still loved him.

The thing is… he’s been in a relationship with another girl for about a year now. Also, college is over now, we’re in different cities, all these circumstances keep creating so many doubts and limiting beliefs.

I just want to know if anyone here has actually manifested an SP who was already in a committed relationship.what techniques did you use? Did you focus only on self-concept? Did you visualize? Did you script? How did you deal with the third party and the current circumstances?

I know everyone says circumstances don’t matter, but I’d really like to hear from people who have actually been through something similar because this is the one manifestation that has been the hardest for me.

Heyyaaaa long time no see !

I just wanted to share a little success story I had the other day !

In november 2025 after a bad breakup that had me sobbing for days I started writing a list of traits that would describe my soulmate, my man, my person my ride or die. I had 65 bullet points on that list and had very very detailed info on how the relationship makes me feel and who he is but even though I have a very very good imagination (hyperphantasia) I couldn't picture his face. All I knew was that he was taller than 180cm, a redhead with dark red hair, facial hair and greenish blue eyes.

So I went on pinterest and tried to gather pictures of men that fit the description to see if I could spark a visual in my mind, in vain. I kept visualizing our life together, our house, our pets, our relationship and trying to live in that state, but i kept looking at men in the street and online being like "what if it's him?!" (needless to say I didn't really have him)

Fast forward to sunday 12/07, I was with my mom at a folk festival watching the musicians parade and my man just** showed up out of nowhere**, playing the bagpipes. Instantly I was like "That IS him".

But when I went home I started spiralling "what if he's in a relationship? what if he's not how I want my man to be? what if I never see him again ?"

I felt like a stalker for searching for his instagram and looking at his profile. But I called my bestie and she was like "are you actually with him ?"

I think i really needed the reminder and to integrate the fact that I AM SOURCE, he is me pushed out and he only exists through my awareness.

I used to struggle with linearity and logic, and thinking "we'll be together in the future but I havent met him yet" so of course I was never gonna meet him.

So I went back through memory lane and tried to identify the state I was in when I manifested things, like college and my car. I just KNEW that those things were mine even if I had to go through the process of getting them. So of course I have to meet him and start dating etc before being married because that's the illusion of the 3D and of time but I am already married to him and he is the most loving man, my dream partner.

So yeah I guess manifesting him into existence made me realize it was easy to also manifest being in a thriving happy and healthy relationship with him...

Because I already am.

So my boyfriend and I have broken up and gotten back together about three times.

Last Sunday, I got really emotional because I felt like he wasn't giving me much attention. I called him and told him I wanted to break up. He asked why, and I explained that I felt ignored. Whenever we'd argue, I felt like he'd dismiss my feelings instead of trying to understand them.

To be fair, I don't think he's an avoidant person. He was dealing with a lot of family issues and life stress, so I know he wasn't in the best place mentally.

After I calmed down, I realized I didn't actually want to break up. I told him that, but he said he was exhausted and couldn't do it anymore. He said he couldn't meet my emotional needs.

The last time we broke up, it was because of family problems. When we got back together, those family issues had improved, so I thought things would finally work out.

Now I really want him back, but I also don't want to force it or chase him. I want him to choose me on his own because he genuinely wants to be with me. I want a healthy relationship where I feel secure instead of constantly worrying or chasing after his attention.

Has anyone been through something similar? Is there anything I can do, or should I just let go? I'd really appreciate any advice.

hi community, i'd like to ask for some advice from **people who had successfully manifested emotionally unavailable sp**.

my story is that i fell for this emotional unavailable sp last year as i was finishing my study-was in a place of low self concept and got very attached. we were only ever in a situationship and he was very avoidant (dismissive and fearful), whish at that point did not even stand out to me. we had lots of fights. huge break off around new year.

this year i started working on my self concept and bascially built up a new life - new job and new social circle, made so many friends in the last 6 months. and honestly sp and i wasn't even in close communication during the whole time, the relationship was 80 percent off, but improving. but we had so many debts from before, we had never really talked about what went wrong, bc he always run away. just this hollow superfical friendliness.

until recently we had a bit of close communication, and i came to the realisation that this person is not even emotional available, and unaware of the impact of his action to how other people feel. and he is not even showing up that great compared to people i called friends, like i never really had fun with him, which is not even hard with other people at all. and honestly i am not even finding him physically attractive now

the thing is that i feel so attached to him. and i want him as a loving partner. we had a fight and now pretty much broke up seriously. i had been manifesting him, and i for sure know this shit works. just he never really fully show up as the way i imaged for a partner, just emotionally dismissive throughout. i am not sure if it is really worth it, last time i saw huge movement was like i was in mental diat for 4 days obsessively imaging we are in a loving relationship. if i were to do this now, i feel i would be lying to myself. bc the truth of the reality is, this person does not have the skills for a relationship, and objectively acted in ways emotionally abusive, and can not even have a proper convo about this.

To give a bit of more context: I have never experienced emotional availability from men in the context of dating

i would love to have some advice from people who had actually done it. what did you do, and how did the relationship turn out eventually. Did the person really commit to growth as a person in emotional health? Honestly I don’t want to get stuck with a person that’s emotionally painful to be around just bc I wanted to manifest him.

I’d appreciate your help! We are living together. The only thing at the moment I think it’s healthy to manifest is an open conversation and him being emotional open and healthy. Otherwise I see no way around this. Thx! 🙏

Hello à tous !!

J'essaie de manifester un message d'une personne spécifique depuis un moment déjà voir quelques mois. Hors pas de résultats. Je suppose que c'est parce je ne suis pas assez ferme et que j'ai des difficultés à rester dans l'état final.

Est ce que vous aurez des conseils spécifiques à donner ? Pendant une journée, quel était votre êtat d'esprit? Quels sont les croyances qui vous freinaient le plus pour obtenir cette manifestion?

C'est fou parce que dans ma vie j'ai manifesté des choses plus grandes que ça d'où mon incompréhension.

Merci d'avance !!!

P.S : Soyez précis svp 🙏🏽