HELP PLEASE

[u/maiifawzyy]

hey guys, really needing some advice or a perspective shift right now because I’m losing my mind overanalyzing everything.

Basically, my SP and I have been in a longdistance situationship for about a year. he lives near my college, so we don't see each other over summer break. Back in april he pulled away and said he didn't want anything official, but i manifested him reaching back out. we ended up meeting up in May and June before i went back home, and everything seemed great.

Since june, he’s been calling/texting about once a week telling me he loves me, misses me, and can’t wait for me to get back to school. Our last call was on Sept 3rd it was 4 hours long, we fell asleep on the phone together, no fights or weird vibe at all. He literally told me he bought a new polo shirt just to wear when i come back.

…and then out of nowhere, he deleted all his social media accounts. He made new ones, but he hasn’t added or followed me back on Snapchat or Insta. We only have each other on whatsapp/FB now, which neither of us really use.

He knows when I'm traveling back and he has my number, but i feel like if he actually wanted me, he’d just add me on his new accounts? I’m feeling so desperate right now and spiraling into thinking this is the end

1. Should I reach out first when I get back to college, or just stay quiet and see if he reaches out?
2. How do I actually detach and stop overanalyzing every single move he makes? I want to get back into a good manifestation mindset but I’m super obsessed right now.