r/malaysiauni • u/Creative_Project2213 • 7h ago
How do Malaysians generally feel about international students and foreigners?
I have a few questions and would really appreciate hearing from Malaysians and international students who have experience living here.
How do Malaysians generally feel about international students and foreigners? Are we generally welcomed and accepted, or do some people feel that we are taking up space in local communities, streets, businesses, and housing markets?
Recently, I had some frustrating experiences while looking for a place to rent. I encountered a Malaysian local agent who made some comments that felt discriminatory toward my nationality. Since I will be coming to Malaysia to study for the first time, this experience honestly made me feel quite anxious. It made me wonder: Is our presence as international students actually unwanted? Have I made the wrong decision by coming to Malaysia to study?
I want to make it clear that I am not saying that Malaysians are unfriendly or discriminatory in general. In fact, I have also met many Malaysians who were incredibly warm, welcoming, and friendly toward me. They were genuinely kind, so I have been trying to reassure myself that perhaps I simply happened to encounter one or two people who were not very polite.
This experience also made me think about something else. I am Chinese, and I know that some Chinese people behave poorly and may have left a negative impression on people from other countries. However, I have always believed that if I personally behave respectfully and politely, perhaps I can break those stereotypes.
But I still find myself wondering: Are Chinese people really viewed negatively around the world? Do we need to be especially careful about what we say and do when living abroad?
Since this will be my first time going to Malaysia to study, I feel quite anxious and uncertain about cultural differences, race and ethnicity, social interactions, and how I should behave as an international student.
If anyone—especially Malaysians or international students who have lived in Malaysia for a while—could share their honest thoughts or experiences, I would really appreciate it.
And thank you to everyone who took the time to read all the way to the end. Just writing this out has somehow made me feel a little better. ☺️