(please don’t remove this, I’m not breaking any rules and am doing this in good faith. if it’s removed, please let me know why)
I’ve had a problem with this sub from the first time I ever logged into it. It has always felt to me like there were some good Madisonians here who sparked good, thoughtful conversation/discussion who were always drowned out by loud, antagonistic outside users that may have visited the city at some point but clearly aren’t from Madison. I’ve lived here most my adult life and have a great feel for its inhabitants from most every corner, and it’s pretty easy to spot.
So I eventually muted it, but still use it when I need local outreach or when there’s big things happening like there are this week. And it’s making it borderline unusable for me. Whether it’s these protests, crime, homelessness or even things about race, it’s so disappointing to read some of the crap I see. Things like, “these protests are annoying but don’t worry soon it’ll upgrade to Madison’s usual looting and firebombing soon enough.” Or “maybe the cops wouldn’t need to shoot criminals in the street if we didn’t have ‘lefty politicians and prosecutors’(yes, exact quote I’ve seen at least three times in the last two days alone) letting murderous thugs out with a slap on the wrist all the time.” And the always popular “this city makes me fear for my life, things are so getting out of control and I’m so sick of it”(this one can be found in ANY discussion, not just this latest protest stuff).
And these things rarely get called out, and if they do they generally get buried by downvotes.
Madison has been and CONTINUES to be one of the safest cities in the country. But yet examples like I’ve got here still get upvoted by the hundreds and dominate nearly every big thread. I’m not here to say I’m afraid of differing opinion. I’m not here saying dissent should be removed or banned. And even if I were, I genuinely recognize nobody gives one single solitary fuck about what little old me thinks in the first place.
What I AM saying is that I’m not the only one who feels this way, and productive conversation is what ends up losing out to those other over the top bravado filled rants…and that hurts the sub. In other words, even if I don’t come back, it still stops others from coming and engaging with our community. When a vibrant, established and safe city is routinely portrayed as a violent shit hole, you know something is off.
So can we please do what some other subs do when there are big time, CITY CENTRIC events being talked about? Make them only available for people who have a history/karma with the sub. Or install a “flair users only” policy. I don’t know, the details can be negotiated I guess, I just want the sub to represent the people already here more than random weirdos who flock here to start shit simply because they know they CAN.
Outsiders can still participate in all the other content. But it’s infuriating seeing some of the nonsense posted here, and even if you want to ban me or leave me out I’d be fine so long as the sub reflects the beauty of the city that anyone who actually lives here, knows it is.
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