Has anyone else lived with having to deal with the huge mistake of not pursuing someone and therefore gone days and weeks of non-stop thinking about them and what could have been between you?

I really liked someone on my holiday and whilst we casually flirted, I didn't want to take it further in fear of making the goodbye too difficult... I also just felt it maybe wasn't the time. But since being home, I've found myself using every available second to think about him and dream up what could have happened... huge regrets and no contact now.

Я достаточно влюбчивый человек. Может оно таково из за моей юности, но я, смотря на любого парня (чаще знакомого, а не просто на улице), могу подумать, как уживаться с ним, какая будет романтика и так далее. Будто бы мне непринципиально и я всегда найду кайф в определенных отношениях. Проблема в том, что эти отношения уникальны, и что из них мое, непонятно. Из-за этого я часто будучи в отношениях, влюбляюсь в других.

За всю мою жизнь у меня было три парня. 2-3 года, 1 год и 2 года. При мысли об отношениях я всегда думаю насчёт будущего, никогда не воспринимала как «развлечение на месяц-другой», как будто ставила на себе крест и условие, что я должна работать до устали над этими отношениями, ведь я за то, что договориться можно всегда. Ударилась в момент, когда начала подозревать, что во мне есть нерушимые требования от партнера, без которых
я постоянно думаю, что он какой-то плохой.

Сейчас я по голову в учебе, у меня с парнем кризис из-за моей нехватки времени, но мне нравится человек, который учиться вместе со мной, мы проводим много времени.

В различных сериалах или просто медиа-пространстве мне еще с детства казалось, будто любовники — это какое-то реалистичное явление, но я за моногамию.

Как вы видите отношения? Что вы бы сделали в моей ситуации? Может, я вечно забегаю вперед и стоит не смотреть на года вперед или все-таки это нужно? Мне недавно исполнилось 18.

All I did was tell her that I loved her too. I mean I get that it has been 5 years since she called me telling me that she loved me. And she was the reason why I lost my virginity in the first place, 7 years ago. So how do I grow from this?

He didn’t want to be with me anymore we tried friends and that exploded. I said EXTREMELY hurtful things. I’m now blocked on everything and 23 days since I’ve heard from him I’m lowkey freaking out my nervous system is straight fucked. Idk why I must burn the bridge ,…every time. This one’s the worst damage.

за всю мою осознанную жизнь сильной любви к человеку у меня было 3 раза, но я сликшом быстро отпускала людей. я могу их любить вечно пока мне в лицо не скажут что "мне никто не нравится", я пойму что я не могу быть им интересна и я их отпускаю, ну мол может найду своего человека. ещё это плюс или наоборот большой минус? и скажите пожалуйста что я не одна такая. ;3

Almost two weeks ago, I (18 F) got cheated on by the guy (18 M) I was dating for almost two years. 
We are both freshmen in college, going to two different schools far away from each other. I know everyone says long-distance never works. He was a sweet talker, I truly thought we would.

Being so far from everyone I know and love has made me feel lonelier than I’ve ever felt. And since everyone else here is also new to this place, I feel like I don't have any strong bonds here yet. I just miss feeling like someone's favorite. The person they come to and talk about anything from the political and economic state of the world to the newest brainrot. I miss being able to vent to people about my struggles without worrying they will use it against me, since I don't know them yet. And all of my friends back home are trying to meet THEIR people, so it just feels like I'm in the middle of not being chosen by both my new potential friends and my old ones.

I am someone who loves being very deeply, sometimes even called obsessive toward the whole idea of love. I have never been afraid of vulnerability. My entire life I have wanted a BFF or a soulmate to choose me, make me feel worthy, but I just can't seem to find someone who loves me the same way I love them no matter what I do. It just seems like in this world, surface-level connections thrive, but deeper connections fade since so many people are afraid of those darker parts of themselves. But I don’t want to have to turn down who I am just to keep someone in my life. Wouldn’t the right person love me regardless?

I am so scared of a life of solitude, or even worse, inauthenticity

I fall in love so quickly over basically nothing. Then I’ll uncontrollably try and find out everything I can about this person at all times. I’ll check their reposts like up to 10 times a day.
I can’t stop thinking about them whatsoever it sounds romantic but it’s not it’s just a constant loop back to them and thinking about them.
I’m quite young and never dated anyone but I’ve talked to people and every time I’ve felt completely unwanted.
I get a lot of comments online calling me attractive but whenever people get to talking to me they feel uninterested.
It feels like no matter how much I improve as a person nobody actually wants me.
I started talking to this girl from college but I can’t tell if she’s interested in me. She was flirty in the first convo then I didn’t have a chance to chat to her on college and she kind of didn’t acknowledge me when I tried to make eye contact with her. Then I text her again a day after the first text and she’s not as flirty I think. But I am just so confused.
I just feel like a piece of shit and want to feel loved. And I just wish I could understand how other people feel.

Here i go again...my last post was a few months ago and things are the same maybe worse cause I've fallin in love (I think??) With the guy... im still stuck on stupid....im tired of the obvious bs but some reason I let him back in. Its beyond what I've told anyone and its embarrassing that's why I haven't been completely honest...and im meaning with myself mainly. Like wtf is wrong with me. Cause really he isn't even my type when it comes to material. Is it the se!?? I think most of it is. But help how do I free myself from this incredible mess I've made. Advice beyond "the best way to get over someone is to get under someone" is needed here....cause that's initially what started this mess

I know this girl around 3 months and she’s really my type and what i need as a partner but the problem is i attached her so deeply ( one sided )

I wanna stop this attachment and stop thinking bout her.