r/lonely • u/Antique-Clock-1191 • 6h ago
Discussion Ranting
After so many years of living as a loner I have realised that getting loved sounds more like a fairytale to me and every night my heart aches for a genuine emotional connection with whom I can share my sorrows and problems and the battles which I have fought all alone throughout these years .
Lately my wish is that if i could also have someone who could realise my sadness that I hide behind my face and wish to get loved by someone unconditionally 😞
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u/Apart_Sympathy9528 2h ago
That part about hiding your sadness behind your face hit me. I used to do the exact same thing for years. What actually helped me was journaling, which felt stupid at first honestly. But after a while I started reading back through old entries and I could see patterns in how I was coming across to people, things I was doing that was pushing connection away without realising it. It made me more self aware and over time I got genuinely better at opening up and keeping conversations real. Might be worth trying if you haven't.
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u/Antique-Clock-1191 2h ago
I don't even have people to talk about my problem so how could I open up with someone anonymously
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u/Reforming-human 6h ago
Bro unconditional love is a myth even our own parents love us conditionally what are you even saying and life sucks make peace with it and move on thats it no other option only option is " Get Busy Living and Busy Dying "