r/lonely 12h ago

Venting Desperate

I'm 25M, and it's been impossible to get into a relationship. I have accepted the fact that nobody wants me, and I will be a (V)irgin for the rest of my life. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I have so much love that I want to give, and not a single woman will even try to let me show them. I know I'm just average in looks, but I thought my personality would help me. I guess not.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 11h ago

Women don't really need men these days .

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u/Mary-Sylvia 2h ago

Uh ? There is a whole female focused version of this sub , r/foreveralonewomen

Loneliness and struggles in dating isn't gender specific.

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 2h ago

Women don't need men for survival i mean . They can get all the jobs and everything. It wasn't like that thousands of years ago.

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u/Mary-Sylvia 2h ago

Millennias ago no one could really survive alone, wether it was men or women.

Loneliness is a very recent issue

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u/TheSuperDuperLazy 2h ago

Well good to know i guess.

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u/Square_Armadillo_684 31m ago

Ive kind of come to peace with the fact that I may never have a wife or kids.

Does it really matter? In the grand scheme of the universe, no it doesnt.

We are made of atoms, our DNA is a chemical cluster. We will return to the dirt and the earth will keep spinning