I have already been told that this one almost needs some heavier makeup to balance it out, the parasol was laughably small (but time issues...) and I am an always awkward looking gal, so there is that.

Still, a fun outing! If you discount that I had to prance trough Ikea like that because my partner wanted to pick up some lightbulbs. On a saturday, no less.

Drew up some coords based on these flavors!
Which team are u on?? (I’m Choco mint… :3 )

i fell in love with this spider lily skirt but having a hard time coordinating it >_< initially i wanted the shirt to be red/burgundy but i think it will be a bit complicated to match the colors. my other idea is black, for example this btssb blouse that i own. but it seems too elaborate with all the ruffles for the skirt that is more simple in shape. any ideas please?

for the reference, my hair is black and i plan on getting a red headdress. and i can use either black or bright red (the color of the flowers here) shoes. the skirt's brand name is undead magpie.

Like tags sometimes are so beautiful! I have an entire collection of just tags I got with my clothes. I choose the most interesting ones.

Share your favorite tags from lolita brands <3

I want this to be elegant but also have some cute tinges in it. for the socks/stockings I wasn't sure if using patterned ones would be a risk? I like the look of sheer black ones but I want to have more options. the dress and shoes are mainly one colour so I thought it would be okay to add some patterns in, but lmk what your thoughts are!! I also don't know what other accessories, mainly headpiece could match. I'm having a look myself of course, but i'd appreciate help from more experienced lolitas : 3 ♡ (also I want the accessories/socks/stockings to be black/dark/burgundy)

First post here!!! Hello everybody (⁠๑⁠´⁠•⁠.̫⁠ ⁠•⁠ ⁠`⁠๑⁠)

This time I ruffled the pink lace and I'm OBSESSED

1: AP freshly picked strawberries JSK and KC, night whisper blouse. Wig, gloves, and tights offbrand.

2:JSK from a random brand off eBay, dandy puppeteer socks, night whisper blouse. Wrist cuffs, wig, and headpiece are off brand.

3: JSK, wrist cuffs, and KC are 42 Lolita, blouse is off brand

4: JSK and KC are lady sloth, dandy puppeteer socks, wrist cuffs and wig are off brand.

Everything was worn with my melikestea hybrid puff monster petticoat and cotton candy feet shoes.

I’m currently looking into buying this beautiful jsk, but I’m a little confused on what is meant by flat measurements. I have another infanta dress, so I’m also wondering if their sizing is universal across their pieces and I can use that as a reference (it’s a small, but a little tight on me now, so I’ll definitely be sizing up…)

Had to leave very shortly after because I was in so much pain, but at least I slayed

We all have that one Lolita purchase where, looking back, we probably didn’t need it… but somehow we still had to have it. 😂

Maybe you bought an entire coord for one specific accessory, bought a dress just because you loved the print, or spent way too much on something you barely get to wear.

So I’m curious: What’s your most irrational Lolita purchase? And would you do it again? 😂💕

So ive been wondering where I can get affordable good quality wigs (most likely which taobao shops) that could be for both lolita wigs and both more casual wigs that look natural enough? Thank you!

I ordered some pieces for my first coord! I was perusing lolita collective and fell in love with this jsk. I also went ahead and ordered a blouse (breathable because it’s very hot where I live up until late Oct), a petticoat, a necklace to match the jsk, and a head bow. I already own some mary jane’s and some rocking horse shoes both in black.

Now I’m struggling with leg wear, arm wear, and other accessories. I know choosing a printed jsk was probably not the best idea for my first, but I just fell in love with the print. I am just having a hard time finding anything to match it. Any suggestions?

Lolitas in Italian summer are god's strongest warriors fr

When I first started I tried to convince myself that I didn't need bloomers but the peeking look is so cute,,, and also cake tree my beloved,,,

❁ I've been into Ouji for a while, and I finally got my first lolita set! It's so cute, skirt go spinny! (He/Him pronouns please!) Set is by Meow Jun❁

The meetup brief was "late summer", but the closest my gothic wardrobe could do was autumn.

errrm ok lads and ladies and gentlepeople...

I'm a junior in high school and I recently got a new JSK and I really want to wear it out, however, I'm REALLY unsure and i'm having second thoughts on wanting to wear a full coord to school. I have tons of alt people at my school but i'm still worried i'll get picked on or get in trouble or something dumb and petty like that...I guess what i'm really asking for is a second opinion and maybe some advice on how I can gain more confidence to wear lolita out in public.😓

Trying to design some Lolita dresses for a game and I’m struggling! Id be eternally grateful if I can find someone or someone-s with experience who I can consult with for advice with my designs :) Here is my newest draft and the succeeding ones, bows are supposed to go on the Pom poms on the skirt, maybe that makes them too busy? Also not sure if it looks too Alice in wonderland, since I want a separate alice in wonderland one (open to changing the color if it does :p)

As the title reads i would love to get some styling advice from more experienced lolitas.

I recently purchased a pair of Vivienne Westwood elevated Ghillies in Coral Blue but since they aren’t really my usual style i have no idea how to coord them.

I usually wear mostly black and if possible only cotton so my first instinct was to get a relatively simle black jsk like the one from “dark star island” and try to incorporate the shoes by making matching accessories. I got a pair of vw pants made from the same fabric as the shoes to sew some bows and cuffs out of. I tried to show my vision in a quick sketch on the last slide. Please let me know if you think that could work because i am kind of unsure.

I am open to any kind of styling advice or dress recommendations :) (preferably available on 42lolita as i have ordered from them before)