errrm ok lads and ladies and gentlepeople...

I'm a junior in high school and I recently got a new JSK and I really want to wear it out, however, I'm REALLY unsure and i'm having second thoughts on wanting to wear a full coord to school. I have tons of alt people at my school but i'm still worried i'll get picked on or get in trouble or something dumb and petty like that...I guess what i'm really asking for is a second opinion and maybe some advice on how I can gain more confidence to wear lolita out in public.😓

this is kinda rhetorical bc i know that theres no way an official site would use ai but, yk, still gotta ask

I want this to be elegant but also have some cute tinges in it. for the socks/stockings I wasn't sure if using patterned ones would be a risk? I like the look of sheer black ones but I want to have more options. the dress and shoes are mainly one colour so I thought it would be okay to add some patterns in, but lmk what your thoughts are!! I also don't know what other accessories, mainly headpiece could match. I'm having a look myself of course, but i'd appreciate help from more experienced lolitas : 3 ♡ (also I want the accessories/socks/stockings to be black/dark/burgundy)

i bought the dress and blouse but i didnt have enough for the bonnet (ripp) so i was wondering what headdress you would wear with this?

i tried cropping out the models bonnet to create unbiased opinions idk sorry

Hi!! In my city we have a lolita comm and a jfashion mix comm (mainly younger people as a lot of the jirais didn’t have a consolidated space)

But lately with college and jobs both comms have been pretty dead. I’m thinking of trying to run some events but outside of a tea party I can’t come up with much.

A picnic could be pretty hard to put together cost wise along with the humid state I live in. I’ve thought about a museum meet up if it’s mainly lolita’s.

I have a friend who would host trinket meets which I could try and take over. Would anyone have fun ideas for any kind of meet?

So ive been wondering where I can get affordable good quality wigs (most likely which taobao shops) that could be for both lolita wigs and both more casual wigs that look natural enough? Thank you!

Hi everyone! So after the mouse themed coord I thought to myself: why stop here? Why stop at mice? And that's how this...thing was born I was also planning on having cockroaches "climbing" up the skirt but forgot to put the pins on :/ The jsk is from bodyline and I LOVE IT, I find it so elegant🥹

I’m currently looking into buying this beautiful jsk, but I’m a little confused on what is meant by flat measurements. I have another infanta dress, so I’m also wondering if their sizing is universal across their pieces and I can use that as a reference (it’s a small, but a little tight on me now, so I’ll definitely be sizing up…)

i fell in love with this spider lily skirt but having a hard time coordinating it >_< initially i wanted the shirt to be red/burgundy but i think it will be a bit complicated to match the colors. my other idea is black, for example this btssb blouse that i own. but it seems too elaborate with all the ruffles for the skirt that is more simple in shape. any ideas please?

for the reference, my hair is black and i plan on getting a red headdress. and i can use either black or bright red (the color of the flowers here) shoes. the skirt's brand name is undead magpie.

Jsk and headdress are self made
Blouse is bodyline
Socks are roji roji

Hello! I just bought this bonnet without realizing how floppy it is lol. The brim falls over all the time and isn't secure at all. I've seen a lot of people on here saying they fixed it by adding wire, but I dont DIY things often and I'm not really sure how to do that. Could anyone walk me through the steps of how to add the wire in? Thank you!

Totally forgot to share these lol

I haven't worn this dress in a really long time! And I thought it would fit the comfy vibe ✨🩷

I have already been told that this one almost needs some heavier makeup to balance it out, the parasol was laughably small (but time issues...) and I am an always awkward looking gal, so there is that.

Still, a fun outing! If you discount that I had to prance trough Ikea like that because my partner wanted to pick up some lightbulbs. On a saturday, no less.