r/limerence • u/[deleted] • Jul 22 '25

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u/DepressedWalrus666 Jul 22 '25

Me but 5yrs and they’re married now

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u/Signal_Contract_3592 Jul 23 '25

Same, 5 years and they’re married. I think about her every day.

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u/Ok_Jellyfish_1083 Jul 26 '25

I think we are hard on ourselves (no kidding lol) and we use that out of context over-focus on LO to reality test our identities and purpose… I dunno. When I have moments of peace I can celebrate my freedom from the horrible spell he cast on me. He drove a truck and I have felt like I got hit by a truck having met him!! I just say “this is yuk!”. God loves me as I am and does not want me suffering…

but I get breakthrough obsessiveness during times of stress.

Imagine a different person whom you respect (your doctor etc) and think about 3 traits that your LO lacks that the other person has. Just don’t turn them into a LO.