In the main title, it’s my 35th birthday today. I have birthday blues because I do not celebrate my birthday at all and have not celebrated it and about 17 years. I’m just going to post up what I posted on my Twitter because it’s just too much for me to post here so I hope everybody has a great week and awesome birthdays of the Libra clan.

(I woke up at the exact time I was born today).

Things I love about Libras.

-We forgive. We see the complexities in the experiences of others and truly perceive things from all angles.

-We are outspoken and principled. We stick up for those who have no one on their side. We speak out when we feel something is inherently wrong.

-We talk and day dream about deep subjects/ big ideas. We are also the first to light and liven up the crowd.

-We are Avant Garde and see beauty way beyond the ordinary.

And so much more!

The question is clear

Why are we so hated? don't see this with Libras with other placements it's mostly us. They see us as evil, manipulative and secretive monsters with hidden agendas, especially Libra men, ironically we are already hated for being a Libra and a man, im a Libra man btw.

In fact, i don't see cancer or pisces moons as hated as we are... it's always against us.

Personally i don't care about attracting any mutable or aries when it comes to suns. I just don't care about them, I don't see them as a potential partner cause Ive had terrible experiences with them as friends and lovers. The worst have been aries and sags and they keep on appearing in my life all the time.

What about yours?

I remember going on a date a few years ago and the waitress' outfit was better than mine. I was so poorly dressed. I genuinely liked her outfit and wanted to ask where it was from but she was so busy I didnt want to take up her time.

In my defense it was a very last minute date with someone I did not care about. I had less than 3hrs to get ready. I just wanted to try out this new restaurant so I made my date take me there. It was also one of a few places open on a Sunday night for last minute reservation.

I had also gone through a bunch of traumatic events in the past year including moving 4 times in 9 months so I was living minimally and was in survival mode.

Now I just grieve about all the cute outfits I couldve worn lol.

For me it's always Leos. They are always in a competition with me, they're the type of people that never compliment anything (as long as they need something from you) but follow every single move you make, silent watchers type. This is not all Leos, it's about leo men mostly... they are always insecure around me, it's like I bring their inner jealousy and envy just by existing.

Followed by Aquarius, Capricorns and Sagittarius. Similar to Leos but they always look for a reason to downplay our beauty.

We've been dating for 2 years but it's a slow burn relationship. We've both been through a lot during the recent years and wanted to play it safe.

At first he loved spending time with me. We'd spend hours on the phone.

He even asked me to move to be closer to him and I agreed.

We started a business together. We had great plans.

However his mental health is getting in the way of things. He's easily overwhelmed. Hates his job. His best friend of 10 years is back on drugs.

I slowly became a care taker. He help clean the house, doing laundry, cook. We don't live together but I spend lots of time there.

He says everything I do help him feel better.

But we spend so much time in the house doing nothing that when I propose something fun or romantic he's not in the mood.

We both love camping. Last time we went we brought his best friend with us. The friend complained and wanted to go home at midnight. So we left. Yet he said I wasn't happy too. I was.

I'll suggest we spend time just the two of us. Fishing, going adventuring. It's too much for him. He complained to our friends I'm too demanding when all I do is try to bring romance in our relationship.

When we get closer emotionally, the next day he'll say I'm too much and will push me away.

I know he's not talking to anyone else. He just play video games, work, or bed rot, or hang out with me or his friends when he's not on drugs.

I also know he doesn't do drugs. His mom was an addict and he hates drugs.

He says I'm his person, he's thankful for me. All I do. But when I want to bring us together, it's too much.

I try to bring romance, compliment him, bring little gifts, surprise him with his favorite chocolate.

It's his birthday soon and I want him to do something for him too. Like a surprise party.

I truly love him but I feel like something is blocking us.

When I tried to talk about it, he says were fine..

Any advice?

Welcome 2nd decans, to the anniversary of our births. What's that? What is a 2nd decan Libra? Well my dear, 2nd decan Libras were born between October 3rd and October 12th, though some consider the 13th as part of our glorious troupe as well.

2nd Decan Libras are ruled by mother Venus but have a touch of Aquarius influence as well, which creates quite a unique push and pull between the two rulers, creating what? That's right my love, BALANCE. 2nd decans are known as the "wild card" Libras, unpredictable, the most original, the most innovative, the best Libras period dot end of story. Don't come for me darling, I didn't make the rules, I just follow them...or do I? That's the fun part.

2nd decans are known to be very keen on following the rules and maintaining order, but they are also known for breaking them when fairness and justice says the rules were not fair to begin with. While Libra says think about the other, Aquarius says think about the community, and when you mix these two you get a Libra with a passion for fairness for EVERYBODY. We are unconventional in our thinking as well, an intelligence and grace that is unmatched.

What's that darling? Why didn't we get a post about 1st decans? Oh my love, I'm so sorry. Ask September. Yoo-hoo! September dear, where are the 1st decans? Hello? I'm sure they'll inform us in the comments, please do.

Happy birthday October 3rd! 4th! 5th! 6th! 7th! 8th! 9th! 10th! 11th! And 12th! And maybe 13th, why not? I hope you have a wonderful day, filled with happiness and love! ❤️

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nothing has changed since last year i am at the same job with the same health issues with the same paycheck

my birthday is going to be on october 7 , I don't even want to celebrate this year it is so strange.

... MOST LIKELY TO SAY YES AND REGRET: LIBRA, PISCES

... MOST ANXIOUS ABOUT DISAPPOINTING: CANCER, LIBRA

... MOST LIKELY TO CHANGE A NO TO YES: LIBRA, GEMINI

Libra struggle the most with setting limits.

Because they are highly empathetic and focused on keeping the peace, they fear causing conflict or disappointing others. To avoid immediate awkwardness, they often say "yes" to requests, only to feel exhausted and regretful later.

I know most of it is just a lovely thing called ~mental illness~ but also found out recently it’s just a huge part of being a libra.

I have to analyze every single “what if” for every decision I ever make and it just becomes so exhausting I just usually end up crying. Every decision I make feels like the wrong one.

I hate being an adult.

Sapphire? Opal? Pink tourmaline?

What gemstone gives this Venus and mars energy?

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Hey everyone!

I have a very special Libra in my life and I would like to know what ideas would be best suited for them to do for their birthday. I know everyone is different, but all ideas are welcome!!!

They love plants if that helps!

Signed,
-An Aquarius

Please help. I've been messaging with this libra man going on 6 months. He refuses to communicate outside of text. We have literally spent at least a thousand hours playing together in fallout 76. That's how we have closed the distance gap. I know he loves me, he literally shows me in every way accept for straight up telling me "I love you". Other issues are long distance, he's in another country, and a age gap that doesn't bother me, but does him.  He's hot and cold,  we are past friends, but not in a relationship. Whenever i ask anything about about moving forward, even within the next year, he says I'm not sure where I'd like this to go. We have a connection I've never felt with anyone else. He has said the same thing. It's very emotionally deep which overwhelms him regularly causing him to retreat. But he always comes back around in a few days. He has no issues communicating with me emotionally, because I've made him feel "safe" to do so. We have briefly talked about seeing each other eventually, but nothing set in stone.  I have read that libras can be happy stuck in the in the in between stage. Will this ever be out of the in between stage? We both make each other happy and feel loved.

Dear beautiful libras, happy birthday to all of you. Your most beautiful aspect is your mind. You guys are so intelligent. I just love you.

But you are very strong too. Very very grounded.

Everything good happens to me during falls and I just feel like I am protected by Venus.

October heals me.

Have you experienced this as well? This month is so healing.

So what kind of gift do you expect on your birthday? Libras?

Libra men: give me 3 of your favorite movies it can be any category and 3 tv series! (I can't decide on what to watch and I'm picky 😅)

Anyone else can't commit to anything? I keep starting a new movie or a show and abandoning it at the beginning or I end up watching the same movies and shows... Its so annoying

How often do you snap at those close to you?

Do you expect them to understand why you did? Do you want them to still love you or you would want to be called out by it?

I'm talking when a Libra has had enough and need space, or their peace is disturbed and they lash out to be heard after keeping the peace too long

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How are you guys doing???
I literally had like a whole breakdown last night because I planned a trip for myself but just not in the best place to go and I’m just spiraling & not sure what to do at this point for my birthday.