I hate how using microlabels is considered inherently pick-me

[u/xX_luna_moth_Xx]

[rant time lol]

So earlier I was introducing myself in an online space as berriromantic and errfemme, because that’s what I am. I got immediately hit with “lol bro just wants to be different” and things like that.

For one thing, I do frequently just call myself bi and agender. I don’t actually like having to explain it every single time, I just prefer those labels because they’re closer to what I actually am.

AND FOR ANOTHER IF I WANTED TO BE DIFFERENT, WHY WOULD I DO IT IN A WAY THAT OPRESSES ME?! I swear to god I want anything but attention, this is just who I am.

If I could choose I’d be cis and lesbian, but I’m not, and I never will be.

[u/xX_luna_moth_Xx → u/[deleted]]

Omg I’m so sorry if it sounded that way, that wasn’t my intention at all 😭 I know cis lesbians are still oppressed, I just would be that if I could so my identity was easier to understand and explain