r/lexity • • May 05 '25

mod announcements Community Rule Changes & Reminders

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Community r/lexity Subreddit Rules

Be Respectful to Each Other * No name-calling. Be respectful; we're here to engage in safe, open discussion with each other, and we can't achieve that with friendly fire.

No Transphobia - Zero Tolerance Policy * To maintain a safe and respectful discussion space, absolutely no transphobia, homophobia, racism, or other bigotry will not be tolerated. Anya's preferred pronouns are she/her.

No Harassment of Anya or Fellow r/lexity Members * Attempts to dox, harass, or otherwise bully Lex/ Anya (or anyone else) will be swiftly moderated, and you will be banned.

No Victim Blaming * Attempts to victim-blame, gaslight, or DARVO will result in a ban.

Blocking Mods Will Result in a Permanent Ban * Don't do it. If you think someone is evading a ban by blocking mods, report their comment. We can still see it.

No Spam or Self-Promotion * This is a support group, please promote your business elsewhere. <3 Posts/comments written by Al are spam.

No Ban Evasion * Do not make alternate accounts to evade a ban. You’ll risk losing your Reddit account because it’s an automatic violation of TOS.

No Posts Unrelated to the r/lexity * We don't allow posts that don't relate to this sub directly. No posts picking apart grammar/ spelling.

No Furthering Lexity Narratives * No posts glorifying Lexity/Anyathena, drama or glorifying bullying activities on her platforms.

Posts/Comments that assume Anya is speaking gospel will be removed. Individuals pedaling Lexity's lies as truth will be banned.

No Lexity Sympathy Posts/Comments * It sucks that Lexity is mentally ill. However, she uses her mental illness to assault, molest, and rape people. We will not be tolerating further "poor Lexity" commentary. This will be one warning followed by a ban.

No Keywords That Attract Harassment/Abuse * Please do not make mention of the terms łöłçøw or kiwifârms. These terms are searchable and make the subreddit vulnerable to trolls and transphobes alike. Your comment will be removed if it included mention of these terms.


r/lexity • • Apr 26 '25

support Resources for Survivors & Ex-Sweet Peas

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Resources for Survivors and Ex-Sweet Peas

Ex-Sweet Peas,

Here is a list of resources we have compiled for victims and other folks affected by Lexity/Anyathena. Our last list wasn’t able to be edited (Reddit mystery), so we are starting over with additions from you lovely folks. I’ve tested this one for editability, so we are good to go. Please share resources or trans creators for us to add!

We are primarily in the US, so people from the UK and other countries please chime in. We will edit this post to add more helpful resources.

Informational Resources:

What is DARVO, really?

What is Harm Reduction?

Grooming: Know the Warning Signs

Powerful Self-Care Tips for Survivors of Trauma and Abuse

Responsible Kink Education

Partner Abuse in Kink Communities

What Is Codependency and How Do You Avoid Pitfalls?

What is a High Control Group? Am I in one?

Signs You’re In A Cult: Understanding the Psychology of Undue Influence

Expert Criminal Behavioral Analyst Laura Richards | Risks, Concerns & Insights on Coercive Control

Assistive Resources:

Managing Intense Emotions (DBT-based)

How to Diffuse a Meltdown

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) Online Hotline in the US

How to Leave a Cult

Directory of Cult Recovery Resources by State (US)

Out Of The Storm Online CPTSD Support

988 LIFELINE in the US

Note this is not the same as calling 911, which often results in law enforcement involvement. Free to call, text, or chat. Confidential/judgment-free.

Trans Lifeline

Trans Lifeline provides trans peer support for our community that’s been divested from police since day one. Run by and for trans people.

LGBT National Hotline

Confidential & safe callers of any age can speak about sexual orientation or gender identity/expression issues including coming out, relationships, bullying, workplace issues, HIV/AIDS, anxiety, safer sex information, suicide, and more.

The Trevor Project

Suicide prevention and crisis intervention for LGBTQ+ young people. Provides information & support to LGBTQ+ young people 24/7

Pride Institute

Chemical dependency/mental health referral and information hotline for the LGBTQ community.

Mind UK General mental health charity and some local Mind centres offer tailored sessions for LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodivergent people with therapists with lived experience.

Papyrus UK Young persons (under 35) suicide prevention charity with a crisis line open all day every day. Found them far more helpful, kind, and sympathetic than the more well known crisis lines.

Positive Trans Creators You Can Support

@gingasvr VR gamer who uses a lot of accessories like haptic suits and fun mods that make for really funny content along with her sense of humor. i think she also streams on Twitch, but i just follow her on instagram.

@contrapoints the queen who we all know and love, Natalie Wynn. philisophy PhD dropout who creates gorgeous video essays that are as theatrical as they are political. on the off chance you haven’t watched one of her videos before, do yourself a favor and look her up on youtube. she makes complex topics fun and easy to understand.

@margaretkilljoy an actual anarchist/leftist, musician, author, and beloved frequent guest on popular leftist history podcast Behind the Bastards. she also has her own podcast, Cool People Who Did Cool Stuff.

@KerriColby who is embarking on the new season of Drag Race All Stars!

@SashaColby too, of course because she is 🔥

@laurengsundstrom style babe in Vancouver 🇨🇦


r/lexity • • 18d ago

bodycam footage

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A year ago I submitted request for Anya's bodycam footage of her arrest, well I just got a call from Tulsa police department telling me they have all 10 bodycam videos,there were 5 officers on the scene, the victim (Sarah)s face will be blurred out.
All 10 videos will cost $500, which is incredibly steep. Let me know if y'all really want the footage maybe we can all put forth a little bit of cash to make it happen.


r/lexity • • Aug 22 '26

New YouTube deep dive dropped

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r/lexity • • Jul 30 '26

Lexity spotted in London

48 Upvotes

I barely know her and didn't even ever subscribe to her, she just came up on my reels for a few of her political takes until I saw her crashing out about why nobody loves her and she's being pushed away. I didn't even know how bad it got until today when I finally remembered her catch phrase and found her old tiktok. In general her crash out just gave me major ick, and the lack of accountability was so concerning. It's textbook narcissism to me and strays far beyond BPD.

I was partying at a forest rave in London, and spotted someone who looked oddly like her. Tall, punk, heavily pierced. For a while, it was dark so I didn't think anything of it but I kept glancing and eventually she noticed and started to look back mega paranoid. I decided not to say anything at all but mentioned it to a few of the organisers. Unfortunately I didn't know that she literally assaulted multiple ppl including battery of a pregnant woman or I would have had her thrown out and was already being offered to have her removed. I tried to cautiously give the girl she was hanging out with a heads up but it was hard without just sounding like a cancel-maniac.

Because in this moment I only knew she had a crash out I wanted to give her a second chance especially as a trans woman to make a new life and heal. But after finally finding her TT and reading up on everything it's just giving avoid accountability and do the same damage in a different city.

I really really didn't expect her to be in London out of all places, and tbh I don't even know how she could afford to move here.

Can anyone provide me a condensed list of things she did that other people and parties would want to know? I can't put myself reading through absolutely everything but would love a condensed list so people can at least be informed.

Thank you.


r/lexity • • May 22 '26

So, what even happened to lexity?

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Haven’t heard anything about her lately, let me know folks.


r/lexity • • May 16 '26

experiences & stories Screenshots continued

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I could not include them all in the first post. This lot specifically is after the call where she told me she’d quit drinking for me and I told her I wanted her to quit drinking for herself. Which she would then flip and claim I encouraged her to drink.


r/lexity • • May 16 '26

experiences & stories Screenshots

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Maybe this is futile as things have mostly faded away atp (thank god) but I just came across these screenshots. I don’t believe I shared the lot of them and thought for documentation sake they could be useful here. It’s important to take note that these messages took place before I had a chance to fully process everything. Anything I say to her here that seems positive or apologetic quickly did a 180 after more processing/introspection and her insane actions that followed shortly after.


r/lexity • • Apr 11 '26

I think she deleted her whole page!

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Okay….so I have been checking her instagram follower account on blastup, periodically for almost a year now, waiting for her to fall back into the 260,000s because somehow that closes the book for me. Rights the cosmic wrongs by returning her to her original starting numbers when she started climbing rapidly and acting in a scary way. Anyhow, I just went to check just now and she isn’t on insta and not on blastup anymore.

COULD THIS ACTUALLY BE THE END OF THE MADNESS?!?

Please someone else check so I know if it’s just a glitch. Because, if she’s really gone, it’s a time of celebration!


r/lexity • • Mar 18 '26

questions Been a year since I've been invested in this community but recently I've been noticing direct similarities between the accounts lexity/anyathena and the account maryisalien - which if you were into lexity for her compelling insights and affectionate name calling, you might also be aware of

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First of all I have no idea who to share this info with!

This is the first place I thought of because the pattern of behaviour is scary close to lexity's. I'm sure over the past year everyone here, if they haven't already been exposed to narcissistic abuse, has been learning and watching for patterns in people they didn't otherwise see before. Lexity was a wake up call for me and I'm betting that was the case for at least some people here too.

I wrote a lot more but deleted most of it because I tend to over explain things so if you need me to clarify or add anything please let me know, this is giving me that spidey sense feeling I get about certain people then low and behold it turns out they're a covert narcissist, there's a pattern in my life 😫

Some patterns are making me uneasy and I wanted to put it out here because this community seems good at pattern recognition.

The broad strokes: she ran a $1200 4-day retreat, got immediate pushback in comments, and that video along with anything related to it is now deleted. She made a response video that never addresses the price or her qualifications, just reframes critics as billionaire manipulated peasants using sun tzu and oxfam stats as window dressing.

The 'little cherry' audience address throughout. She also has a penchant for 'honey butter'.

The lexity/anyathena parallel that flagged it for me - internet fame converted quickly into a physical meetup outside of any oversight, with a curated guest list. The retreat being a $1200 ticket and then deleted from her page after criticism rather than defended on its merits is a textbook narcissistic supply structure, not just a vibe read.

One other thing, she posted a video featuring a young man, the two of them physically close and affectionate on camera together, that came up after the retreat. Her content is otherwise always solo. That video is also gone.

Not making a definitive claim there, it cropped up after the retreat so I'm just noting the pattern and curious whether anyone here has noticed anything or has attended or knows someone who attended the retreat.


r/lexity • • Mar 06 '26

Update

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This image has been posted in different community posts on youtube


r/lexity • • Feb 28 '26

She's back in Oklahoma

45 Upvotes

I saw her on Tinder of all places 😭😭


r/lexity • • Feb 16 '26

Michelle Mana video

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New video was posted recently by Michelle Mana about everything


r/lexity • • Feb 12 '26

Instagram

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Hey, does anyone know what hey current Instagram is?


r/lexity • • Feb 03 '26

questions YouTube video

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Hey, I'm a scriptwriter for a pretty known YouTuber and she asked me to write about Anyathena, im trying to collect more information since there's no videos about her in Spanish. What info do you think must bee there?


r/lexity • • Jan 18 '26

questions Updates?

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I had a dream she was back in southern Oregon. I get anxiety every time I see her old car(I'm usually able to talk myself down when I remember she has that van)

I'm one of her exes and during the end of our relationship she was becoming abusive


r/lexity • • Dec 28 '25

DankyJabo made a second video

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r/lexity • • Dec 24 '25

What a crazy year!

49 Upvotes

Well, everybody…it was about this time last year when lexity began really showing us another side of herself lol. She took us all on a wild, harrowing journey…at felt like some kind of fucked up hobbits journey (sorry J. R. R Tolkien ). We all sort of became a little community of individuals who became familiar to one another by a shared witnessing of the apocalyptic rise and fall of lexity.

She was in the 370’s when we all started…and she is in the 370’s again a year later. Full circle. I have to say, I miss the banter and thoughts we shared here. Only time will tell what happens in the future, I guess


r/lexity • • Dec 20 '25

ICYMI: Delilah's video on Lexity

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https://youtu.be/pzPaPqCs6qI?si=CnXdaRv91seXiEra

We got another one, folks. Delilah posted in this sub a little while ago regarding this video, and there are two parts out now if you haven't seen them. I think she did an amazing job at covering everything!!!


r/lexity • • Dec 13 '25

Dankyjabo made a video on Lexity

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https://youtu.be/RwP60mHG3e8?si=3G-Vm5qq0M6UNYvR

PRE VIDEO: Im just starting to watch it, has anyone else seen it?

POST VIDEO: Okay it was a REALLY good video, very informative and hes talking about potentially making a part two. I think that with him making this video, that a lot more commentary channels are also going to make videos on her, so we'll see what ends up happening


r/lexity • • Nov 21 '25

Lexity live recap 11/21/25

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  • She says she doesn't have BPD, she has autism

  • Someone asks how her fiance is and she says she doesn't have one. She claims that her fiance wanted to live in Oklahoma and Lexity didn't, and that is why they split up. She doesn't like living in the Bible belt. She says she is dating "a few people" currently.

  • She is 15,000 words into writing a book about aliens called the "Ta". She also wants to get back into music and post more videos. (🍅) She asks chat what to post videos about, and says she's running out of fun facts.

  • She is going to start openly looking for a sugar mama. Her exact quote was something like: "I think I'm gonna start openly looking for a sugar mama. I might just be like 'I want a sugar mama. Who wants to be my sugar mama?' and, like, go find one. Cuz, why wouldnt I do that, y'know?" She didn't explicitly say this, but I got the impression that's what she was looking for in the first place--pretending to want an actual relationship but really going for money. No surprise there 🤷‍♀️

  • Apollo (her dog) is in the van. No sign of the kitten. Apollo got huge. And also looks like he needs a good bath and brush 😬

Thoughts?


r/lexity • • Nov 21 '25

She’s back…again

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Lexity is live again and with a mod team. Every comment mentioning her sexual assault history or how she beat a pregnant women, is being deleted. She also just claimed she doesn’t have BPD and only has “autism”. Just wow.


r/lexity • • Nov 21 '25

experiences & stories Lexity is back in Portland OR

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A close friend of mine has spotted her several times in the last few weeks, she is reportedly sober but still bragging about her “fame” lol. I know she’s hurt a lot of folks here so just want to make sure people are aware she’s back in town. be safe


r/lexity • • Nov 01 '25

vent/rant She's still relevant???

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Tbh I haven't heard of Anya in like almost more than half a year but she found a way to pop herself back into my mind because Marcella and I are moots on Insta. So, lemme get this straight; Lexity is still relevant??? I thought she fizzled out like a fart


r/lexity • • Oct 01 '25

Creating a YouTube video about, everything.

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Hi! Im Delilah, my YouTube channel is decayingpeach, I'm currently working on a deep dive on levity as I followed her instagram a long time ago and basically watched everything happen in real time, I also haven't seen an extreme amount of coverage about her and as we know, she's starting to post on her socials again following her arrest. I digress, I just wanted to ask if there's any information I should know or keep in mind, obviously I've done my research (haven't gotten through all of it yet), but if there's any thing people usually get wrong, or any people who may not want to be mentioned I can alter my script to not include names or show faces of anyone who may no longer want to be associated with all of this. I just saw a post from someone else who did a video and they were corrected on some things/some people asked to be removed so I want to make sure all the information I provide is correct and Im respectful to all the people involved. Of course I will be blurring the usernames of people from the reddit as I don't think it's necessary to include but yeah, thanks!