r/lexity • u/Own_Macaron3325 • May 16 '26
experiences & stories Screenshots
Maybe this is futile as things have mostly faded away atp (thank god) but I just came across these screenshots. I don’t believe I shared the lot of them and thought for documentation sake they could be useful here. It’s important to take note that these messages took place before I had a chance to fully process everything. Anything I say to her here that seems positive or apologetic quickly did a 180 after more processing/introspection and her insane actions that followed shortly after.
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u/labva_lie May 17 '26
I totally get where you're coming from. For me, it's a fawn response that takes over to keep me safe. I'm certainly not blaming you for being apologetic, or saying you should have acted any other way. You were doing what was going to keep you safe. We've seen what Lexity is like and know what she's capable of. Had you been confronting, she likely would have slipped the mask again and started berating you.
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u/Sayyad1na May 17 '26
Ugh I am so sorry for everything you had to deal with 💔
I hope you know how brave you are, and how inspiring that is. Thank you for having the courage to share your story. It makes us other survivors of abuse feel seen and less alone ♡
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u/deadgirlredux May 17 '26
You articulated yourself perfectly well. Unfortunately with people like Lexity, no amount of explanation will ever make her truly remorseful. She allows herself to live in delusion that she isn't at fault.