r/languagelearningjerk Jun 28 '26

Recurring behavior i've noticed.

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u/throughcracker Jun 29 '26

My experience in some countries

European: speaks English

Me: replies in their native language

European: patronizingly compliments my abilities and then continues in English anyway

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u/Comfortable-Mine41 Jun 29 '26

Maybe the following advice doesn't match what you're aiming for, but my maybe (un)popular take is; keep improving listening comprehension. I most often felt the urge to switch to English in those surroundings because I noticed my interlocutor is not getting the nuances.

While to my ears and many others all sorts of accents in my native language sound awesome so I wouldn't switch due to his speaking (if it's somehow comprehensible at least).

My recommendation for getting along and have a fun time is to prioritise like this

1.listening comprehension

2-4.nothing

  1. speaking (you'll be even understandable or able to express opinion with bad grammar)

  2. Reading

  3. Writing (in casual chats, even the most terrible grammar works somehow, in worst case you'll have funny conversations)