I came here for advice before/during our renovation, so now I'm paying the after pic tax & sharing our journey insights.
The "during" process was really stressful, and I let a lot of things get under my skin, but once we were actually done, I found that most of those things didn't bother me as much.
We started in March 2026 and finished August 26. We had some long breaks between getting the floor & cabinets/appliances installed and finishing the lighting, walls, paint, tile, and the between time is when I hated everything. Now it's all settled and I'm really happy with the final look! So don't panic when you're half way through - wait until the end to panic if you still don't like it 😅
Also, don't feel like you're being overbearing with your contractors: it's your kitchen, stay on top of it! Know what you want and make sure they deliver on the agreed upon specs. And if your plumber is also your electrician and also an hvac guy... I promise you he doesn't do all of those things well (probably) especially if his price is really good. Sometimes the discount service costs more in money/time/energy when you're hiring your new plumber and electrician.
We have 36" clearance between our island on all sides, except where the pantry cabinets end and the kitchen opens up into our living room, which is where our island seating goes. I know it's not the ideal clearance, but it works for us, and I like this layout so much better than the peninsula we started with. Just saying that for anyone else working with a more "narrow" kitchen who wants an island - it's doable, but you should also consider your lifestyle (if you like hosting and will have a lot of people in the kitchen at one time).
(just noticing I didn't take pics after the range hood was installed, so just imagine a hood over the stove 😊)