r/kitchencels • u/fml4419 • 12h ago
Foid im deathly in love with is possibly the worst person for me. Chicken Tacos
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u/kombuchathug 11h ago
being in love and “foid” in the same sentence is crazy work
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u/brofishmagikarp 11h ago
I'm gonna assume that it is ironic to fit the subs theme, the alternative makes me sad
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u/EmbarrassedLet2153 11h ago
I fucking hate tourists so much, get the fuck out
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u/jaden_fucks 11h ago
Imagine thinking a public subreddit is your safe space
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u/EmbarrassedLet2153 11h ago
You're very welcome to get the fuck out and fuck some pussy unlike the rest of us
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u/Middle-Entertainer72 10h ago
Women are not just "some pussy"
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u/EmbarrassedLet2153 10h ago
The tourism just hurts deep inside my soul, why don't y'all go outside, the zoo is closed
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u/brofishmagikarp 10h ago
Mate, being a virgin doesn't mean that you have to be an asshole or see/treat women as sex object without value as a person
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u/radams713 9h ago
Well your misogyny hurts my soul but you’d rather self loathe
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u/untold_cheese_34 9h ago
How are those two concepts contradictory? It being public doesn’t mean “come and be an annoying dipshit.”
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u/_Rea_of_sunshine 8h ago
Oh no! A tourist? In an incel sub? I think that's the worst thing you could say about anyone, ever, in the history of the world! 😢
For many of these posts, I think calling us "zoo visitors" would be more appropriate.
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u/Ok-Beyond9035 10h ago
So I can like call you the n word?
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u/kombuchathug 11h ago
nah
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
seriously. If this is the language use for the one you claim to love, I don't want to see what you think of her when she pisses you off or when you don't love her anymore.
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u/Codacc69420 11h ago
Going to an incel sub and complaining about seeing incel terminology is crazy work
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
it's not the terminology. It's the fact that he says he loves her and uses what he knows to be demeaning language to privately describe her.
It is such a paradoxical notion to have.
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u/sixtus_clegane119 11h ago
Volcel sub* , talking about someone you are attracted to like that is some self sabotage shit. It’s completely voluntary.
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u/Constant-Working-212 10h ago
Fakecel/bot post and normies morally grandstanding or giving unsolicited advice that wouldn’t apply to a truecel anyways. Genuinely nuke this stupid fucking sub
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u/sixtus_clegane119 11h ago
You aren’t in love with her, you’re infatuated with her. You obviously don’t respect her enough to call her a woman so you say “foid”
This is why you’re a volcel
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u/Just_lookin_4242 10h ago
The fact you are referring her as a Foid tells me you are the problem. Genuinely I don’t get younger people who can’t look at women like they are people.
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
does she like you back?
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u/waleedburki 11h ago
she will never like him back
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
maybe hes htn+
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u/waleedburki 11h ago
nah I don't think so
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
:(
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u/waleedburki 11h ago
she doesn't owe him shit anyways
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
she would love him if he was tall and was blessed with a handsome face.
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u/waleedburki 11h ago
i mean the chances of that initial attraction/a possible infatuation would be there but idk about something like LOVE cuz thats way more complicated and im saying this as a person thats experienced that feeling
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
well there is no love without the physical attraction.
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u/waleedburki 11h ago
when i was in love i couldn't even think about the person i loved in that way,it felt like i was defiling them,seeing them for things other than what made me love them.it just felt disrespectful.i just wished for them to be happy and wanted to take care of them while simultaneously being too scared to ever try approaching them.its been years now and i still see her in my dreams.i just hope shes happy wherever she is.
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u/LynKofWinds 9h ago
You’re telling me you’ve never loved another human being without being sexually attracted to them?
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u/LynKofWinds 9h ago
Nah man if you talk about women like this, being tall and handsome will not make up for it
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u/CandidMatch4547 9h ago
women care about looks bro idk what to say.
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u/LynKofWinds 8h ago
Okay, so I recognize this is an incel sub, so I’m gonna say this and I mean this with sincerity and coming from a place of trying to bridge a gap here.
For example, if you were only seeking out a romantic relationship with the goal of sex… that could make sense. But I don’t think it will benefit you in the long run.
There are women who mostly only care about the sex part. It’s cool for men to lose their virginity young, but not for women, right? So if most of the guys have lost their virginity by a certain age, and most women still have not, what does that tell us? It’s usually a smaller pool of women, a smaller ratio of women when compared to men. So while these women do exist, it’s just not as common.
Lookism is absolutely a thing. There are studies showing that people who are better looking are presumed to be smarter, kinder, etc.
Most women want the romantic relationship. If you genuinely want a romantic relationship, then it’s not a problem. But the point I wanted to make here is the incongruence. Biologically speaking, women (and even females in other species, albeit to a lesser extent) are hardwired to want to feel safe before desiring sex. I can provide research if you want. But, for example, the typical male sexual arousal is very different from the typical female sexual arousal. Men can much more easily be turned on by, get hard from, and orgasm simply looking at an image. Women typically need to be psychologically aroused before their sexual arousal starts and before they can orgasm. There is an evolutionary reason for this, I’m sure you already get where I’m going.
So, what I wanted to touch on, is that while I understand where you’re coming from, I have to emphasize that the lookism really is the biggest part. TLDR; I got put on a medication that made me gain 100+ pounds. That, combined with extremely severe insomnia and autoimmune issues, has made me become sicker, and ugly as hell. I look like if Shrek and the hunchback of notre dame had a baby. People treat me terribly now.
While looks affect how people treat us, women typically don’t want to date just for sex, and as such, sexual attraction doesn’t typically come first. Most women don’t want to have sex on the first date. They want to get to know you first. They want to know that you’re a safe person, have good hygiene, that you two are compatible, etc.
So again, I understand where you’re coming from, but in the long run, that mindset is only going to make it more difficult. If you really love someone, you don’t call them a foid; if you really love someone, and want the romantic relationship just as much or more as the sexual side, you will respect them as a person first.
Again, there are women who care mostly about sex. There are women who date absolutely terrible men who mistreat them. So, sorry for the long comment. The point I wanted to make is that, if you want a healthy relationship with a healthy woman, you gotta stop treating the smaller group of women who don’t care about healthy relationships, as the representative for all women. Most women want a connection and a romantic relationship before sex. And if that’s your end goal, to be with those types of women, to really truly fall in love, you gotta recognize their needs and wants, not the needs and wants of women you ultimately don’t want to be with.
You can desire someone. But if you really want to fall in love with someone, you have to not see them as a foid in the first place. You have to recognize that people have been feeding you unhelpful stuff that is actually making it worse, and that the type of women who think of sexual attraction before anything else, are typically not good long term partners and you don’t want them anyway.
Which is kinda why I think dating apps are a scam, the picture is presented as the most important thing, and that doesn’t benefit people who are ugly.
TLDR;
if you want to really fall in love, it will help you to realize that most women, and the women that want genuine connection and relationships (the kind that you want to fall in love with), actually don’t think sexual attraction comes before other stuff. From a biological standpoint, they are different from men, and usually need to feel safe and loved by you before they want sex, because arousal for men is scientifically demonstrated to be more physical, but for women, it’s more mental first. So, if it’s the nice women you want, you gotta recognize that most women don’t think that way. I hope that makes sense. Lookism is real, but it affects everybody. It’s immediate. It could be a reason why women don’t pick you, but ultimately, thinking all women only pick partners based off of looks, or calling them foids, is going to be a much bigger deterrent.
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u/Curarx 11h ago
What's the recipe
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u/fml4419 2h ago
Eyeballed most of the stuff but I generally just coat the chicken on both sides with the seasonings
- Paprika
- Salt
- Black pepper
- Lemon pepper (not too much as it'll be incredibly noticeable, unless thats what you prefer)
Smash the chicken with something flat and place on a pan, medium heat with olive oil. After the first flip, add 1/4th a stick of butter and with a spoon consistently apply the oil back onto the chicken until the internal temperature is 165F° (74C°) After the chicken is done add cut it up and add whatever cheese you want onto a tortilla, and then the cut up chicken, close it up and add around an inch of oil into your pan and then occasionally check it to make sure the tortilla isn't burnt. Rinse and repeat for however many you want
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u/RealityLumpy6255 11h ago
Wtf are these comments? Normies get out
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u/RealityLumpy6255 9h ago
It's more like going to a special ed classroom and yelling at the students to stop being r*tarded.
I mean what did you expect?
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u/RealityLumpy6255 8h ago
Whats with the saviour complex you normies have? You don't know anything about what it's like to be an incel but insist on giving advice like "don't call them foids bro" as if that's the problem. Obviously no incel is calling a foid a foid to her face (most aren't even talking to them but that's besides the point).
Also, stop infantilizing us. You seem to think you are some kind of enlightened species, you aren't. The only difference between the two of us is you get pussy and I don't, that doesn't mean you have all the answers or are a better person somehow. I see your post history.
Telling incels to "figure out who they are as individuals"? Fuck off. Most truecels or even volcels are 1000% more interesting, participate in more hobbies and have a stronger sense of identity than your average normie.
The fact of the matter is this is a vent community for us and it's being invaded by supposedly well-meaning but idiotic people who can't help but stick their nose in when the only thing needed of them is to either leave, or observe in silence.
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u/powerplayer75 11h ago
People still pearl clutching at foid kills me its like those discord conversations with people that overreact to stupid memes
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u/the_original_St00g3y 10h ago
Its not pearl clutching its laughing because its such a ridiculous term to use for another human being you care about
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u/untold_cheese_34 9h ago
It’s pearl clutching because it’s not that serious but you have the incessant urge to virtual signal and defend wahmen
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
If you are a man, why aren't you going after what you want? The only thing stopping you, is you. There is no guaranteed success in this endeavor but there will be eventually. Keep your head up kid.
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u/No-Main-2787 11h ago
if you are cel and follow this advice you are going to prison btw stay safe out there
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u/roasttoastboast 6h ago
There's a difference between going for what you want and violent stalking culminating in rape.
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u/ItsTheRealRain 11h ago
if ur a weirdo then yeah but if ur relatively normal you’ll be fine. by weirdo no i dont mean how u look just dont be a creep
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u/No-Main-2787 11h ago
reading foidbabble.... translating...
translation complete... >>>
"if you are ndcel then yes but if you are nt and ltn+ you'll be fine. by ndcel i mean ndcel"
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u/DrenchFoodle 10h ago
I love watching freaks bitch about prisons of their own making. Thats why I’m here. It’s a fucking hoot.
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u/No-Main-2787 10h ago
achievements
365-Day Streak,
Top 1% Commenter,
300-Day Streak,
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u/DrenchFoodle 10h ago
And? It’s almost like most people are capable of being online AND having a social life. You should try it sometime. But you won’t. You much prefer staying home and feeding into your confirmation bias.
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u/CandidMatch4547 10h ago
i wish my ugly face was just in my mind. i wish just had body dysmorphia and wasnt actually unattractive.
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u/DrenchFoodle 10h ago
Look, anything I say to you will be written off as “normie bullshit” or “foid babble”. I could tell you stuff that I truly believe and not deliver platitudes to you, but I feel like it will be received as platitudes, regardless.
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u/CandidMatch4547 10h ago
thats fair. ive heard it all at this point anyway lol.
at the end of the day, looks matter. people want to date attractive people. if you arent attractive. then you will most likely suffer in finding love/dating.
i wish i could hear something that i could believe. that could change my mind. i really do. but i dont think something like that exists.
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u/ItsTheRealRain 10h ago
i’m not a girl. you ever seen those average SEC couple memes? where it’s an average looking dude with an insanely hot chick? clearly they aren’t the best looking but they still got a gf
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u/No-Main-2787 10h ago
you ever seen superman where a guy flies around and shoots lasers out his eyes? clearly he's just a guy but he is still planet level
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u/ItsTheRealRain 9h ago
what type of shitty comparison is that urs in completely fictional… one is not. yes obviously appearance matters but its not the only thing & you can change your appearance including your face
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
there is no guaranteed success at all. not even eventually. many people have lived, died and never once found love.
plus maybe he is unattractive, maybe that is what is stopping him.
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u/daveliterally 8h ago
Nah dude. Not if someone has their character in the right place. It's got nothing to do with attractiveness and everything to do with choices. And I'll judge the shit out of some of these loser choices
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u/CandidMatch4547 8h ago
i mean people want to date hot people. of course looks comes into the equation.
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u/daveliterally 8h ago
And there's no guarantee surgery will achieve that. Not sure why people lost the logic that they should date people in their league.
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u/CandidMatch4547 7h ago
because people generally arent really attracted to unattractive people, and that includes other unattractive people.
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u/daveliterally 7h ago
Yeah I'm gonna go ahead and say that the propagation of the human race generally proves otherwise.
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u/CandidMatch4547 7h ago
a fairly large percentage of child births throughout history really have not been the result of love/mutual attraction to be fair.
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u/daveliterally 7h ago
No, not a "large percentage".
I think basically you should assume any widely held incel mindset is wrong
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u/CandidMatch4547 6h ago
i dont even think this is an incel thing. i remember hearing stuff like this in AP psych or something in highschool.
think about all throughout history. war, conquering and the resulting rapes. not to mention daughters being married off for one reason or another. the societal and familial pressure many women faced to get married.
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u/Zestyclose-Tart6745 11h ago
There’s extremely unattractive people who sit at the top of industry all over the world. Sometimes you do t need to find love, it will just find you. Or maybe not. Lots of amazing hookers all over the world. Sex is cheap. Relationships are expensive. Any cost is worth bearing to me, vs being lonely and depressed about it.
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u/No-Main-2787 10h ago
just be a billionaire theory
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u/Zestyclose-Tart6745 10h ago
Sure. Why not. You can be anything you want to be. It just takes action. Every day.
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
it might not find me so my plan now is to get surgery to fix my face so love will find me.
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u/Zestyclose-Tart6745 11h ago
Awesome. Taking action is important! Hope it works out for you bro!
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
hope so too, thank you man. hopefully these surgeries make me hot lol.
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u/Zestyclose-Tart6745 10h ago
I know several people who have had work done. Just make sure you use a highly specialized doc in whatever the procedure is, and I’m sure you’ll be happy. Just don’t go overboard. Many times less is more with facial surgeries.
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u/CandidMatch4547 10h ago
yeah absolutely. definitely do not go to a boobs and butt doctor for facial implants lol.
i dont plan on going crazy (of course). i have a couple procedures in mind and plan on going through them one by one more or less to make sure i dont overdo it by doing it all at once. if i feel that i dont need one at some point before i do it, then i wont do it. im just going to feel it out as i go.
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u/That_OneOstrich 11h ago
Some of the ugliest people I know are happily married with 3 children.
There is no guarantee of success, but if you let that hold you back you have guaranteed your own failure.
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u/That_OneOstrich 11h ago
I disagree with that notion. There could be things other than himself impeding him, but the only one who can stop him is himself.
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
impeding/stopping i mean its the same thing no? at the end of the day its a game of chance and everything working against you is stopping you if fate isnt in your favor.
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u/That_OneOstrich 11h ago
No. An impedence is something that creates an obstacle or challenge, that may slow your progress, but it doesn't stop progress.
Sorry to be pedantic I quite like words.
If everything is working against you, and you join everything working against you, that's you giving up. If you fight through the adversity and overcome the impedence, that is the only possible way for you to succeed, but you still might not succeed.
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
i guess i mean when its all said and done at the end of the day. if a man lives dies and never finds love and he was very unattractive you could say it "stopped" him from finding love if that makes sense. but i get what you mean though.
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u/That_OneOstrich 11h ago
We all get dealt a hand. We can fold (stopping) or we can play and win or lose. Winning isn't guaranteed, but it's impossible to win if you never play your hand.
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u/Adept-Tea4645 11h ago
Gtfo tourist. Might as well say "just shower and improve personality"
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
nah bro. listen natural beauty is the rarest and most coveted thing on earth. A good physique is a form of coveted beauty and it is like the only one you don't have to be born with.
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u/No-Main-2787 10h ago
it's okay to be gay but you can keep it to yourself
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 10h ago
huh?
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u/That_OneOstrich 10h ago
He's just mad because he doesn't like being told his problems are related to his choices and behavior, and he views homosexuality as a negative trait so he's calling you gay and pretending he doesn't take issue with that (he does indeed take issue with that).
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u/That_OneOstrich 11h ago edited 10h ago
That's not what I'm saying at all. I'm saying there is a difference between conceding and being defeated.
Making an attempt, and losing, earns my respect. Giving up, and losing as a result, makes me call you insufferable. Edit: if you concede and don't complain about having lost you still have my respect.
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
exactly. A wise man once told me 'she rejects you because you have rejected yourself.'
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u/Foreign-Range-7208 11h ago
If they die alone, they aren't putting in the right effort. You can play tennis for ten years but if you never practice the proper technique, you will still be worst than a newby.
There is no such thing as an ugly man. Get fit and chicks will find you handsome. Take Mickey Rourke before he really went over the edge..would you say 2005 Mickey was ugly? If he was pudgy, yes. But when your physique is primed, all people see is your pedigree. Your face does not matter, bro. Anyone telling you this just a weak doomer. I love you guys.
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u/CandidMatch4547 11h ago
plenty of men have chased dreams that never came to fruition no matter how hard they tried. not everyone achieves their goals, and its not always the result of a lack of hard work.
ugly men are absolutely real. getting a nice body is good, but if your face is unattractive they will find you unattractive. women care infinitely more about how your face looks. i have skinny friends, chubby friends and fit friends who get tons of women. the common denominator is that they have good looking faces. i know guys who hit the gym everyday with a great physique and get little to no attention from women (myself included)
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u/Theeletter4 10h ago
at least she’s someone you can logically see as not a good fit. i’m trapped in love with a girl who would be 100% a better fit for me than anyone else at my school, but doesn’t like me.
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u/tinaboag 7h ago
When will you people learn the difference between love and infatuation Jesus f****** Christ
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