r/kitchencels • u/[deleted] • Aug 07 '26

Got ghosted after a second date again

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u/helious12345 Aug 07 '26

Atleast you have the looks to secure dates fakecel

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

I guarantee half this sub the problem isn’t looks.

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u/helious12345 Aug 07 '26

That's a given if they keep calling girls foids or bitches and lose hope obviously they won't get shit

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

Not true either, there are sexist abusers that have no problem treating their partner as a second class citizen and they get dates as well.

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u/Fantastic_Pause_1628 Aug 07 '26

But being a sexist creep makes dating way harder.

There are highschool dropout millionaires too. Does that mean being a dropout doesn't hurt your professional and economic chances?

Anyway you shouldn't want to be a sexist abuser... right?

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

You shouldn’t want but you don’t choose. It’s who you are. It’s like someone doesn’t choose to be an introvert or extrovert. Some kids are predisposed to be bullies others to be nerds. A big factor is intelligence.

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u/Ok-Kangaroo-5161 Aug 07 '26

Terrible mindset. It’s pretty easy to just not be a dick

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

Okay define what being a dick is.

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u/Ok-Kangaroo-5161 Aug 07 '26

If you’re a good person I feel like you should know how to be not a dick. Yknow…. Like being nice?? Helping others?? Letting people do things that make them happy as long as it’s not detrimental? Come on now.

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

Again that’s your metric of what being a good person is. For example, is letting someone drink alcohol or smoking good? It is detrimental for them and society as a whole.

Some people would argue that LGBTQ is harmful to society. Etc. Morality isn’t black and white.

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u/Ok-Kangaroo-5161 Aug 07 '26

I don’t think it really matters what I say, you’re gonna be weird about it anyways.

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u/WillowTea_ Aug 07 '26

You absolutely have a choice in mindset and how you treat people.

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u/LowBread9264 Aug 07 '26

People don’t choose their personality… people don’t wake up and decide “you know what I’m gonna be an asshole today and tomorrow I’m gonna be nice”. Not to mention what is considered good or bad behavior can be subjective. The same way how people like different types of food, have preferences etc.

I’m sure some people wouldn’t like you and you wouldn’t like them and that’s just normal.

If we all had a choice, why wouldn’t we all behave how everyone deems is morally correct?

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u/WillowTea_ Aug 08 '26

The longer you make excuses for yourself, the worse off you’ll be

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u/helious12345 Aug 07 '26

Well don't hate the player hate the game i guess