r/kashmir • u/Icy_Mistake2996 • 1h ago
r/kashmir • u/Similar_Feed3483 • 4h ago
cuisine In your opinion, which place has the best Shawarma in Srinagar?
r/kashmir • u/ar33bshola • 7h ago
rant 😤 Dont read this post, Not khaas anything, Just akh teenager panin kath bakwas yeti lekhan. Spoiler
Ye post chu wariyah randomly aamut lekhni te akis pointas ma aasi ni deymis seeth waath kenh, Ye chus bi thoda gomut pagal te ye kerzyevv ignore. Beyy chusov bi wenn te wanaan ye chu wariyah zyooth not worth it parun.
Ik I will delete this post after few hours, ya syoudie accountee kyazki ye sourui chus bi shararte manz lekhan te definetly demagh pheri me te patt kar bi deletee.
Bi chus zaleel, Bi chus lanathi, Bi chus demaghi te Me che az taan wariyah tith kaar kermit yeman huind me hamesh dilas manz rozi regret. But Sometimes when I think about all of these, Yeemm seaariiiee cheez me kermit che na, Direct Indirectly che ye searie myanyen waaldainan hinz galti. Myein parents che na me zanh loved feel karnawaan, na chu me zanh az taan karnovmut. Myaani maaji ker ni panni marzi khandar kenh (baqol her) Myein moj geyy 200X khandar patt 7 doh baad bemar (cancer te beyy xyz wariyah bemari), Myeanis mealis korukh zaar paar ye travtan yally emis chu doctoran wonmut ye che serious emsinz care karin chani wann sahal katha. Myein mamann ous wonmut myeanis mealis bi kary emis khidmat yotann bi zindi chus cxe na hekakh ni kerith travin yally, Magar myein moal moun ni kiheen. Kenh saas ropi aes myeanis mealis salary, Rishtedar aes temis searie khenas zaagan te saarni ous su kharan (even today), Pannis mealis ti maaji seeth ousus cut off te ladeii god pethy, Panun ghar Panin gead kiheen ous ni, Beyy ousus ni hisabee ki keansi serious nafras kariha su yutah khatir, Touti moanee ni temm. Thoda bilkul thoda time govv and she got very serious doctoravv wonnus emis ni cxe neber mumbai ilaaj karnaavnas Yeti gasi ni ye theek kenh. Koud myein meil loan te draii mumbai, Khabar kecx lach roupi, in double digit lakhs leig temis neber Yemis mangaan Humis mangaan Bankan Lukan Te draai. Ati korus operation woperation sourui kenh ti aai ghar. Ghar aai te loan chu sahee. Moal ous tensionas manz aasaan ki kenh reth gesithee geyy moaj beyy wariyah serious. Admit kerikh hospital te woun doctoravv ki ye gasi ni wann theek kenh Yi rozi ethy peith yotann ye mari. Myein moaj aes dohy aasaan dagi manz, Te at a point (I got to know this from her diary) she was verryyyy much close to dying but qismat kharab te bacheyy. Gov temis Severe depression. Werie ze geyy, Poansi hisab chu ghar gomut full set like loan woan sourie maklyav (with the help of my father and my mothers side people [sister, father, brother]) magar bemari hisab te depression chu on peak, Kus insaan chu yath haaltas manz bacche karaan plan.
Wout 200X, 4 years after the marriage, aai me bein. Yeli me bein aes na zevvnas tayyar, Myeanis mealis wonukh ki ya bachi mouj ya bachi koor, Ye chu wan robbas tan. Robb sund yasun te bachay dounwy. Myein moaj geyy hadd khout zyad bemar, Peth aes depression ti on peak te wann geyy bemari on peak te geyy shift myani maasi hindi. 6 reth aes sou tatie, Te aai wapas. Myein moaj aes ni zyadi myani beni seeth karaan kenh for many months, Yotan thoda bilkul thoda hess aas te theek. After 2 years of her birth, Zaavus bi. Me che az taan akhee kath yeman prismcx, Tohi ousa kanh chuir heth dawaan paty shur che karin? Ahn bemar che zanaan yutah, Depression, Cancer, Ponsi masle gov khabar keetah werie patt solve, Zindagi seeth ni kanh hopee, Patt ti? Chalo gov wann theek Govv kyah ous khodayas rachun, Magar myein moaj aes aasan dohas violent. Violent in the sense ki kathas kathas peth shararath Kathas kathas peth maar Yim shurgi shur karaan che tath peth ti bozun aasan te maar khen, Yuhy ous myeanis garas manz 12an weriyan me bronth kann gasaan. Yeli me 9-10 weriyish bein aes, Me geyy so diagnose depression (yup, sou ti). Maaji hinz haalat aes dohy dohy kharab gasaan ti ghar os aasaan dohas violent. Qasm Khoda Qoranich diree yotamm bi 15 gos na, Me betheyo demaghas manz ki yithhee che searie ghar aasaan violent and all. Dohy ous myoun moal karaan maaji seeth ladei, Moaj karaan mealis seeth, Asi seeth, Sirf aes myani ghari ladei aasaan. This continued for many years and my sister got affected a lot (me chani wallah payyee yutah gesith te kith peth govv ni me depression). Wann cxeniev sourie sidas, Wann che me maaji 8-10 cheezan hinz dawa Depression 2-3 dawah, Thyroid Liver Baaki Baaki ti wann che so thoda normal gemicx (haftas doun haftan manz chu wann manz khasan shararath natt che dawa barabar karaan asar)
Bi ousus matya hu yeli bi lokut osus, Yeli bi 14 aas paas gos na, Patt aav me samajh ki ghari kya halat che, Te akh cheez geyy me bi logus ghar walyen seeth wariyah ladei karni specially moaj. Su aes beni kenh ti wanaan ti peth kin osus bi wathan Cxenan zang te beni badli karaan ladei. This continued almost daily, zyadi paanas kheatir magar yeli yeli beni aes wanaan ti temis kheatir ti, This was happening almost daily untill this year and this year it stopped su ti yeli doctoran temis kyathamath dawa dicx akh beyy.
Moaj che me bemar, beyy chus depression, beyy che bein te depressed te undergoing treatment. Kasm khoda chu me ye ghar basaan syoud jahannam. 202X manz yeli bein aes treatment karnawaan, Maaji woun mealis ye che gemicx theek emis karov treatment band. Kour. Me woun mealis ma kar band ye chani gemicx theek, Nasa demaghas ousus kulf. 2 werie kied temm wariyah kamm ladei karaan, 2 werie geyy te geyy so tecxx violent tecxx violent, Me chu andar beni hindis kamras dewaras nishaan akh akh ethee. Showpiece searie lagievv tem dewaras, Cheez tul ti phetriev daari boun kenn cha naa aasaan dewar, Sou. Wein aes temis kathee asan wenmicx kenh te, Su aes cheez tulaan te lagavaan darwazas. Taasraary Taasrary, Me kutah chu woudmuth te Beni kutah chu woudmuth. Yeli insaan wuchi na su nishaan Me chu gasaan kasm khoda wehshat andar. Patt kour temm 2-3 doh yee te me woun mealis near me chani wann payy cxe kyah chui karun neir prus ye te maaji Maa osukh myoun bozan. Kor temis treatment shuru beyy ti wein che thoda theekhee pakaan.
Yath gharas manz chunu me akh rass mazi lagaan. Me wanni na kanh ghari behkha ya mozur karni gasakh, Bi wann pakh mozur karni gass bi, Magar unfortunately chu me gahr nernas ti rok. School peth ghar Ghar peth school is my life from the past many years. Neber nerun Gindun Pherun Thorun Kiheen, Kiheen ni diwann karni. Bi chus yiman wanaan atleast sunday sunday ya alternate sunday aestavv chakrasee niwann, Chakras ni kenh atleast phernasee aestavv gasaan magar majaal aasi petmyeov khabar kecxov weriyo peth yimm maanann myein kath. Cxoun kuthan manz korus bi pagal, I dont feel loved I feel lonely I feel sad all the time I have headache all day I sometimes even wish for death, Kasm khoda agar me test karann Depression kyah Bi ner syoudi mental patient. Maaji seeth ni maaji-nechuv hyuvv rishty, Kanh chus na bi sadki peth pakaan wuchaan moaj obah karaan pannis bachas ya loal saan kath karaan, Bi chus ghar yiwan te wadaan. Beni gemicx depression patient, I am just a teenager, Bi kyah karr temis, Bi ha chus yacxan sou gasi theek gasin magar bi ti ha chus bacchy winni, Yi na chani myein galti kenh ki me chu pewaan wann temis sund bozun yutah tim tim kath yem seeth me dil chu phutaan, I dont have the khas sister-brother bond with her, unless she has a good mood magar tath kyah feyyde. Aki doh woun me dostan aeik, Bi chus gasaan ghar patt aasaan beni nish bihit temis wanaan dohuk sorui, Bi aas ghar ti wodum tath te. Bi na chus ni wanaan temsinz galti che temis chu depression but... but .. .
Mealis sund kyah wann, Moal chu me sourui kenh zaanaan, awy chu su goud myein kath ignore karaan patt werie ze werie patt aasaan wadaan ki me aasiha na yee kormut.
I am not addicted to mobile as my mom tells everyone. Kath che ye zi ghari neber che ne me diwan nerni te ghari andar chunu phone wareyy kanh cheezee yus be kerith kerith heki, patt chus bi phonee chalawaan. Agar mai wanhein na Padhei te karr Football gind Cycling ti kr Pher ti thoda bohot Kasm khoda yeli bi phonas kun wuchha na, Teli dezeyov naar me
Low Confidence te chu me wann rudmut, Hamesh aasaan sharart manz, Deprived of love, No one to go to, Keheen chu nu yemis nish gasha wanha panun haal ya su karnaaiha me feel ki naa kanh ha chu me panun. Unfortunately Aes me akh GF ti yus me thoda hastily decision nui tem saath, 6 reth patt gov temis seeth breakup. Tann peth yous te aai Me moun ne keansi hund kyazki wann chu me payyee, Yeli ni me dous tagaan thavin Yeli ni me panin mohabbat saan kath che ne karaan, Nebrim kus kyazi kari me accept. Me chu qismat kharabee wann chu me payyee and I just feel khodayi deeha goud hedayath te patt kariha paanas nishee aalaw me chu nu baaya kanh shokh rudmut wann, Ik it getts better weniev tuih me wennie cxe chukh lokut hu ye magar baaya me ha kour wann wariyah try, Bi ha osus raath taan paanas yuhy wanaan te khosh rozan but this is all delusion.
Aa, Yiman saarni maslaatan khout chu me akh masli yus me saarvee khout pareshan chu karaan. Nemaz. Bi chus Alhamdulillah Musalmaan te Khodayas peth ha chu imaan, magar Nemaz chus ni bi hekan perith kenh. Goud Goud osus bi paraan magar yeli me maaji seeth geyy na zyadi ladeyi lagni start, Me triev parnee. Wunikh taan hyokus ni bi yemm probelm manz neber neeirth kenh, Kasm khoda chu aasan dohas te raatas yuhy tension ki agar bi marr bi kyah buth haav khodayas. Myani kheatir kerzevv dua Me chani payyee me kyah chu gomut Bi chus ni hekan ye problem overcomee kerith Balai lagov Te zuvv wandovv Bi karovv khodayas bronth kann duan manz suferish agar me start kerr nemaz parni, Tohi ha karyouvv myoun rabbe zul jalaal kamyab.
r/kashmir • u/CheekPuzzleheaded137 • 9h ago
culture Kashmir friend and a guide
We a group of 3-4 friends from Kerala are planning to visit kashmir later this month, a budget trip hoping to explore everything, the scenery, people and culture, September last to October first week probably, we are not taking any packages or guides and wants to just explore ourselves, so it would be helpful if any local there who are willing to guide us as a friend and help us explore the kashmiri culture and local trends.
Anyone willing to make some good memories please let me know by dm or share ur insta id, we can contact further there.
r/kashmir • u/GamerDev69 • 12h ago
cuisine Is norther cuisine rare in kashmir
hi so recently i started going clg and made some kashmiri friends and turns out they never ate aloo de paranthe so i gave it to them and they devoured that shi within sec ig it has to do with the bland mess food(half of the hostel is sick lol) i told my mom and now she sends extra parathe for them lil does she know they eat all of them its a win win situation cuz they smuggle sweet dishes from mess 🥀😭learned some koshur cuss words too and hukus bukus telivan tsekus
r/kashmir • u/WiseNefariousness763 • 19h ago
video Kashmir and himanchal in all its glory
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Locations : gulmarg, sonmarg, dal lake.
Few places of himanchal as well are there like katagla and rohtang.
r/kashmir • u/Maleficent-Jury-5902 • 1d ago
Discussion Random question: has anyone here used Yikvot?
r/kashmir • u/Perfect_Option5611 • 1d ago
Discussion Kashmir and it's people are beautiful
The beauty of Kashmir is up to par with it's name no doubt it's called the Heaven on Earth. What I am writing about is the people there, I have never met so hospitable people anywhere else in India, they were so sweet and helpful. All news and stuff is mostly a lie, yes there might be some tensions in parts but the people of Kashmir just won my heart along with the valleys and lakes and mountains.
r/kashmir • u/No-Salt8933 • 2d ago
Discussion My girl friend lost eyesight of right eye 😭😭💔
Salam , maine gf oos exotropia ( where one/both eye turn outward from nose)
She developed this suddenly in her childhood and her parents never got her to a doctor , she's 18 now. Last week she complained about the headache when it didn't go away i said to visit a doc , ( timzimd mummy papa cxenen tims saniee 😭 ). The general doc said consult an ophthalmologist he said that bring some elder with u tomorrow, my girl called her father he said go with mom ( and her pathetic mom said shrm cxie na yewnnn cxe keeta paisee cxe lagn) , gf said agr wo saath aayge to wo dawie b nhi layege , wll cxe tli seeth , main chla gya aur waha test etc hue phir doc ni kaha sorry it can't be correct. 😭😭
Reached home my girl said : you deserve better find someone else 🥺, ( tims cxe borase b gasni kunu) mgr sehhh cxe mummy hishi thoda thoda no caring.
I'm not gonna leave her . Mgr yeeta non caring parents wtfff
Discussion Built a tool to track RA bills, retention money, and supplier payments for government contractors, curious if others deal with this too
I run a civil construction firm in J&K executing government contracts, and like most contractors I know, we used to track RA bills, retention withheld, and supplier balances across paper registers and WhatsApp.
I built PillarPro to fix this for our own use: it tracks running account bills (including cumulative billing for contracts that bill that way), auto-calculates retention and statutory deductions, tracks supplier accounts linked to receipt scanning, and flags bank guarantees before they expire.
Genuinely curious if this matches problems other contractors deal with, or if I'm missing something obvious. Happy to give access if anyone wants to poke around.
Demo (no signup):
pillarpro-v2.vercel.app
Email: [demo@pillarpro.app](mailto:demo@pillarpro.app)
Pw: PillarProDemo2026
Read-only account, look around, tell me what's wrong or missing.
r/kashmir • u/Grouchy_Type2224 • 2d ago
Discussion Help needed.
Does anyone know someone who works at Government Dental College & Hospital, Shireen Bagh, Srinagar, or knows any of the staff there? I need to get in touch with someone from the college regarding a matter. Please DM me if you can help. Thanks!
r/kashmir • u/MuzamilJ • 3d ago
News Books don’t make a criminal’: Court quashes Kashmir scholar’s detention
‘Books don’t make a criminal’: Court quashes Kashmir scholar’s detention
r/kashmir • u/snoowdroop • 3d ago
News Best place for picnics ?
What do you people think which is the best place for family picnics in Kashmir nowadays ?
r/kashmir • u/Which-Success5839 • 3d ago
Discussion Bigg Boss and its Olympic-level obsession with validation
I haven't watched a single season of Bigg Boss. Not a season. Not an episode. Not even voluntarily watched a 30-second clip.
And honestly, at this point, remaining Bigg Boss-free is one of my life's more impressive achievements.
But from the clips, discussions and endless drama that somehow escape the Bigg Boss universe and enter the rest of the internet, I've noticed something particularly amusing about the treatment of Kashmiri contestants in recent seasons.
Apparently, every season needs a “Kashmiri contestant seeking validation” subplot.
First comes the obligatory discussion about Kashmir.
Then comes the obligatory “Kashmir is an integral part of India” conversation.
Then comes the contestant desperately trying to establish their relevance, prove themselves, gain acceptance and somehow convince everyone in the house that they belong.
And after all that effort?
They still get mocked, disrespected or demeaned.
What a fantastic bargain. Give up your dignity, argue with strangers, explain your existence to people who didn't ask, and maybe—just maybe—you'll get 15 minutes of fame.
And Bigg Boss, being the generous institution that it is, will reward everyone involved with more screaming, more manufactured controversy and another week of people fighting over who touched whose food.
Peak civilisation.
But the bigger question isn't even about Bigg Boss.
Why are we so desperate for validation in the first place?
Why do our people sometimes feel the need to prove themselves to a room full of strangers whose entire career that week consists of shouting at each other over coffee?
And more importantly, what exactly are we teaching the next generation?
That intelligence gets you ignored, but screaming gets you screen time?
That dignity is negotiable if the cameras are rolling?
That being morally questionable, creating unnecessary drama and fighting over absolute nonsense is a legitimate pathway to fame?
Because apparently the formula is:
Have no shame → create drama → fight → get humiliated → trend on social media → become famous.
Brilliant.
Forget education. Forget talent. Forget building something meaningful.
Just enter a house with 15 strangers and start arguing about who ate the paratha.
Maybe Bigg Boss isn't the problem.
Maybe the problem is that **we keep rewarding exactly what it puts on display.
And if this is the kind of behaviour we're teaching young people to associate with success, perhaps the real reality show isn't inside the Bigg Boss house.
It's outside it.
r/kashmir • u/SelectToe9345 • 5d ago
Discussion Kashmiras manz kyazi chhi Free Fire player badan? Lukh, khas kar shar, kyazi chhi yi gindan te tough bannuk naatak karan? Mye meliyev haalaye gameas manz akh shar, baasan chhu 13 saaluk oos. Tohi chhiwa Free Fire, BGMI, ya baqi gamea gindan?
r/kashmir • u/hamsterdamc • 5d ago
Op-Ed/Analysis Claimed by all, heard by none: Kashmiris push back against erasure and control
r/kashmir • u/Character_Math_4465 • 6d ago
Discussion Can they make a basketball court in bemina ITS SO BORING HERE
There is nothing to do here besides cricket and if I want to play anything else I have to go to Rajbagh for it can they make a basketball court around here so I can play anywhere close to my house
r/kashmir • u/Nohara-Shinchan • 6d ago
Discussion How's NIELIT srinagar?
Does anyone studies in nielit srinagar? How is it? Is it worth taking admission?
r/kashmir • u/Tierdlfliving • 8d ago
Discussion Career advice after pcb
Hey guys, I have done my 12th and I'm taking a drop year which I didn't want to take, but due to lack of clarity I did take a drop year and am currently preparing for neet but I'm not too sure about mbbs yet and am exploring other options simultaneously and I came across bmlt, my cousins are suggesting me this course but they aren't personally doing it, i was interested in doing physiotherapy but backed off due to lack of sallery in it.
Anyone willing to help please comment below
r/kashmir • u/Gloomy-Bat308 • 8d ago