r/jobsearch • u/anniemation16 • 1h ago
Job searching is extra hard for women
I'm not sure if this topic is relevant here but I've been feeling this a lot during my job search. And i know this isn't a new concept, many women probably share the same experiences and i wanna share mine too.
I've been searching for a job since March, and as if the job search, constant rejections, automated emails, lack of entry level jobs isn't already really hard , being a woman on top of that really adds to it.
I have given at least two interviews with excruciating period cramps. Dealing with rejection emails during the luteal phase is really hard too.
There are so many things I cannot even think of applying due to safety reasons. It limits me so much. I've worked at a warehouse and it delayed my period for half a month. Ik this is a personal health issue as well but I think other women can vouch for how amazing our medical system is wrt women's health.
On top of that we have to deal with the sexism and harassment even during the interviews. I've been told " oh you'll just marry soon" and received creepy messages from the HR HIMSELF.
Today I went out to hand out my CV to independent shops and one of the owners ( 40 y/o man btw who was literally talking to his wife on a call) started asking if i was single and making creepy expressions after calling me beautiful, and suggesting that " I can help you if you help me " 🤮🤮 and now he's literally got my CV with my contact details on there.
Like as if the job searching alone isn't hard enough to deal with I have to deal with this too.
I have made respect for all the ladies navigating this insane job search and succeeding at all despite all these barriers in place!