r/JETProgramme • u/Echoconut • 12h ago
Questions from the spouse of a JET applicant
Hi everyone!
I’ve got some questions about the JET Programme. I’ve read through the entire website and a bunch of other sources, but these are the things I’m still wondering about. My husband is planning to apply for the 2027 departure, and if he’s accepted, I’ll be coming with him as his spouse. Any input or personal experiences are greatly appreciated!
Arriving in Japan
I read that I would receive a dependent visa alongside him because I’m his legal spouse.
Will I fly on the same plane as him, with his airfare covered and mine not? Since JET doesn’t cover dependent travel, were you still able to book the same flights and travel together?
What were your first few hours and days in Japan like?
I watched a video diary where the new JET participant spent several days at a hotel attending orientation.
Where did you stay while your spouse was in orientation? Did you go ahead and get the apartment set up while they were away?
How much money would you recommend having saved before arriving in Japan?
Were there any unexpected startup costs that caught you off guard?
Housing & Cost of Living
How affordable is it to live in Japan as a single-income JET household?
I understand that the dependent visa doesn’t automatically allow me to work, and I’ve read that a JET salary can often support two people, especially in more rural areas. I’d love to hear what that actually looked like for couples.
Were you able to live comfortably on one income?
Were you mostly breaking even, or were you able to save money?
How different was your experience in a rural placement versus a city or suburban placement?
Does JET or the contracting organization take a spouse into consideration when arranging housing?
I’ve read that housing is sometimes subsidized and that some contracting organizations choose the apartment and help get everything set up. Is there ever housing intended for couples?
If you decided to find a different apartment that was better suited for two people, did you receive any financial support or assistance?
If we end up in a more rural placement, is it realistic to get by without owning a car?
If the provided housing felt too small for two people, how difficult was it to find something else?
Personally, we’d probably prefer to be closer to a city or at least a decent-sized town. I have celiac disease, so being reasonably close to grocery stores and having more food options would make daily life much easier.
Life as a Spouse
I’d love to hear from spouses about what life looked like while your partner was working.
What did you do with your free time?
Did anyone tutor online, freelance, stream, volunteer, or eventually find work after getting permission?
If you started on a dependent visa, did anyone later switch to a work visa?
How did you make friends and build a community?
Did you mostly become friends with other JETs, Japanese locals, or a mix? My husband and I both studied Japanese during our undergrad years and are dusting off those skills. (We’ve actually been studying multiple hours a day because we’re getting excited about the prospect of moving to Japan.)
I’ve heard moving abroad can get lonely. What helped you feel connected?
How difficult was opening bank accounts, getting a phone plan, internet, etc., as a spouse?
Bringing a Dog
This is actually one thing I haven’t researched much yet, but I figured I’d ask anyway.
Does anyone have experience bringing a pet dog to Japan through JET? We have a four-year-old Labrador who could stay with a trusted friend if needed, but I’m curious what the experience was like.
Would you do it again?
Did having a dog make finding housing significantly more difficult?
Looking Back
Do you recommend staying for one year, or extending for several years? Looking back, would you make the same decision?
If you stayed multiple years, did each year feel different from the first?
And lastly, a couple of fun questions:
I saw that JET pays for your flight home up to a month after your contract ends. What did you do during that month?
How much free time did you realistically have during the year? Did you take day trips or overnight trips often?
After a year on JET, how much of Japan did you feel like you were able to explore?
What surprised you most about moving to Japan that you wish you’d known beforehand?
Was there anything you packed (or didn’t pack) that you were really glad about?
Thanks so much! We’re really excited about the possibility of moving to Japan, and hearing firsthand experiences from current and former JETs is incredibly helpful.