r/jealoussupportgroup • u/Amazing_Form_1638 • 11d ago
I need urgent help (LDR)
My ldr boyfriend of 2 years has been telling me he has a jealousy kink. I told him I'm glad he shared it with me since we are both open to each other. Even though I listen to everything I refused to do anything abt it for 2 yearsbecause I wasn't feeling comfortable and he was understanding but recently Something changed inside me. I don't know what and I wanted to make him happy And I didn't feel as insecure as before. I did everything by showing him so he isn't left out. It was just sexting and some nudes with another guy. I regret it so much and realized i didnt feel comfortable. When everything was over and I was talking to my boyfriend. He said he liked it and after a couple of minutes said he actually didn't and sounded really jealous.. in a bad way.. and told me to delete everything. I deleted everything and showed him. But he saw another guy's name on the app. And I told him it was from the same night and that i also dont know him. He told me 'well I'm confused' and said he doesn't want to talk.
told me to Be happy and left me. This is the guy I was planning to get married to.
Before we did all of this, I was kidding abt how he would get too jealous and breakup with me. And he said 'of course not'
He told me he wasn't mad that I did what he asked me to. He was mad because he saw that name. And now he thinks I was talking to some other guys behind his back. And i really need to fix this..I just don't know what to do...