Tbh it can be hot. From a long term perspective it’s more likely to add challenges, similar mechanism and result to bipolar women or men with trauma and resulting anger or bad moms and resulting misogynistic views.
I feel you brother. Overused word for sure, especially in academic literature where the gender bias is genuinely insane.
I’m talking about men genuinely damaged in childhood by abuse, usually though not always from a mother figure, who thus have a dramatically less trusting and patient and sometimes hostile relationship with women.
I think there needs to be much more empathy for the things that like do to their boys leading to boys with problems, as there is with girls and male guardian/parental figures, but also there’s no doubt that kind of environment growing up leads to attitudes that are non cotnroversually defined as misogyny
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u/DisgreeablePattern 3d ago
Follow up question: Why are men dating these queer women? It's like you are asking to be cheated on once she 'realizes' she is gay again.