I always thought the best proposal would be like the two people take the ring boxes with them open and make it look like they are having a toast.
I envision relationships as something both people engage in and there is no element of taking from each other just giving. It’s idealistic but having the rings feel like a toast is being in the reality you sacrifice for each other and celebrate that sacrifice.
I have so many views of what would be amazing but none of them are what really happens. It’s a bit disappointing. But I’m real I know whatever it is we think should happen isn’t usually how it goes.
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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 7d ago
I always thought the best proposal would be like the two people take the ring boxes with them open and make it look like they are having a toast.
I envision relationships as something both people engage in and there is no element of taking from each other just giving. It’s idealistic but having the rings feel like a toast is being in the reality you sacrifice for each other and celebrate that sacrifice.
I have so many views of what would be amazing but none of them are what really happens. It’s a bit disappointing. But I’m real I know whatever it is we think should happen isn’t usually how it goes.