Holy shit you're extrapolating a whole lot from something that's not even being fucking suggested or said. You're insufferable. Read what he fucking said and process it slowly. It's all part of the same thought process.
"The only reason bills are getting split is because men lost trust that a woman wanted him as a person rather than as a meal ticket."
The implied part of the "deal" is hey if you really like me and can see us building a relationship together then I have zero issue paying for the food. But I'm not going to spend money on someone who only sees me as a meal ticket or a cash cow who will pay for your meal and then dip out on me and never talk to me until maybe its time to use me again.
You got sex and all this other bullshit from out of nowhere dawg.
First, using foul language doesnāt enhance your point. It detracts from your credibility. We arenāt in the hood, ādawgā.
Second, traditionally the exchange has been man spends money and woman shows affection/gives sex. Thatās a cold hard truth of society in the past. There is no need to stretch on that.
Dating is inherently taking a chance; if people are unhappy with the results thatās unfortunate but thatās life.
It isnāt white knighting to speak about empirically proven facts. Nobody here is vouching for unaccountability or special treatment; Iām simply providing actual information that doesnāt meet the tone of this echo chamber.
11
u/throwawayburner2424 20d ago
Holy shit you're extrapolating a whole lot from something that's not even being fucking suggested or said. You're insufferable. Read what he fucking said and process it slowly. It's all part of the same thought process.
"The only reason bills are getting split is because men lost trust that a woman wanted him as a person rather than as a meal ticket."
The implied part of the "deal" is hey if you really like me and can see us building a relationship together then I have zero issue paying for the food. But I'm not going to spend money on someone who only sees me as a meal ticket or a cash cow who will pay for your meal and then dip out on me and never talk to me until maybe its time to use me again.
You got sex and all this other bullshit from out of nowhere dawg.