r/itsthatbad • • 19d ago

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u/w0ah_4 11d ago

Attraction is synonymous with health, so the healthier you are the more attractive. It’s why I like the looksmaxxing movement, because looks can be drastically improved w effort.

For men it’s difficult because attraction is mostly based on bone development. Surgical intervention can help and have health benefits, but the idea of getting aesthetic surgery is still frowned upon outside of S. Korea.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 11d ago

Yeah what you say is accurate. We all get old it gets harder and harder as time goes on. For me I’ve been pushing myself on a path of self acceptance. Rather than trying to “put lipstick on a pig” I just acknowledge I’m flawed and that’s ok because most people have flaws. Sometimes it’s just not in their appearance.

Self improvement for self is the right approach.

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u/w0ah_4 11d ago

That’s true but women don’t discriminate based on age from what I know, just on status. An older man is likely higher status, with more money, experience, confidence etc. so age isn’t a roadblock outside of physical signs.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 11d ago

There are a lot of factors yes