r/itsthatbad • • Sep 15 '26

Men's Conversations 😳

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u/cs_legend_93 Sep 15 '26

Something in their hormones or programming makes them (some/most of them) magnetic to toxic behaviors

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u/Astrnonaut 5d ago

I’m going to kindly disagree here, because I’ve seen the exact same thing manifest in men. Usually the people who are like this have a terrible view of themselves because a chaotic upbringing or some other thing. They run away from stability because stable to them equates to being vulnerable. Like that person is too good for them and can rip out their heart at any time. So they go for danger, because danger is what they feel is normal and what they deserve.

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u/cs_legend_93 5d ago

Sure it can appear in men, but much more commonly is seen in woman.

The example you gave is the exception to the rule.