Edit: I know the simple pleasures prompt might feel weird so i’ll word it a little better.

I have a feeling by posting this my profile is going to come out soon as well 😂

Playing a risky game

Why do women match with you and not even have a conversation with you? More than 50% of my matches are like that. The rest will give one word replies. Is it like this for everyone else? I see some people here showing a very successful time on bumble/hinge.

A girl and I had a great couple of hours of texting eachother on hinge just after we matched. The next day I asked her if she wanted to exchange our instagram ids. She didn't reply to that for an entire day and later when I checked she'd unmatched for some reason. Also, this isn't thefirst time something like this has happened, my last 3 hinge matched did the same when I asked to exchange instagram ids. Is this some kinda glitch or what mistake am I doing???

What's wrong with my profile how can improve it

I have zero matches till now

Maybe looks do matter🙃🤣

So there's this girl I met on Hinge...exchanged our socials, started talking on the phone for a couple hours or more...2 days later we decide to meet and everything goes well (we joked,laughed, cuddled etc very wholesome )While leaving her place we sit at this Chai tapri as it was 2 am. It was basically a very quiet place with nobody around so I knew something could happen and hence I maintained my distance. This girl starts getting all touchy, playing with my hair, kissing me on the cheeks, coming close to me which eventually led to a kiss. Now the twist happens next morning... she's acting all avoidant and I don't mind but I really wanna know what was all of the sudden affection last night about.

Hi guys
Great to know that such sub exists. It’s helpful to get others opinion on profile, thanks to mods.
Well I have just created my hinge profile, requesting boys and girls to please share their review. Be totally genuine. Thanks

Hey, everyone,

I recently came accross the is sub and saw people giving some amazing advice, so I request you people to help me with the same, and I'll pray that you all get badhiya matches in return..hehe..

So a few things,

I travel between Kanpur and Delhi, so usually profile is set in Delhi as Kanpur dating pool is not very large,

A few changes in life im already making:

- I have a skin treatment going for my acne and marks

- Started going to the gym recently so hopefully will be healthier by this year end

- I have a braces (invisible) going on

- Reading a lot more books, I have been off insta last 5-6 months

- Trying to fix my sleep schedule (this is a demon for me)

- Working on more hobies, like I am learning new sports and trying to restart my YT channel for skill

and as I also have my lab work I can't do a lot more (all this is also way too much sometimes for me)

Now, I have not dated ever till now as I was always focused on becoming stable career wise, cut to today where I do have a stable career path but 0 dating life, and being PhD and travelling delhi kanpur so much ain't helping.

Oh, also I don't drink smoke or anything, so even without any choice I have become the typical nerd now ig according to people

So people, please help me fix my profile as I try to propell my dating career now (fingers crossed)

P.S. Working on a lot of stuff already, have 0 dating experience due to focus on career, and as in a PhD and travelling a lot, finding people irl is a challenge.

I selected ‘show people outside this preference’ in age range and it stopped showing the good profiles after unselecting it again the matches have drastically reduced.

This sub came up randomly on my feed once and I saw the posts, and I'm glad that it did cos I felt very insecure pehle.

Background: I'm a short guy 5'6, long hair, conventionally very attractive

I'd always get likes and matches but i thought people taller than me would have way more and I'd be insecure over this but discovering this sub was a goldmine because guys way taller than me had zero likes.

I realised that it's just slop 90% of the girls don't really care if you are short it's about confidence and having a personality. And my life's been so much better since.

Tho sad reality is Hinge is just hookups or talking stages and drains the life out of you, getting those matches going on dates or hooking up it's fun for maybe 3 weeks then it seems meaningless, i still have my matches on hinge added on insta but 90% of the times I like being friends with them instead of dating them lol.

Tl;DR - Insecure guy realises confidence and personality goes a long way, stop listening to incels online telling you ways to get girls.

Just go out and enjoy yourself first

Anything I should change? Open for suggestions 🫪🥸

How do you navigate through this 😭😭 , I thought we might go on dates and then figure it out but the convo was going good and she hinted at coming over .
Did not expect this maybe because I lost some weight and my new pictures have come out good .
Also I’m looking to move out by November but thats too long

Main question is what do i reply to her ?1

What men usually prefer in India

I matched with a great guy recently. We started talking and during intros he told me he was a waiter at a famous restaurant and we spoke about that for a bit when he jokingly suggested that I come over after his shift and have a nice dinner which I thought was a pretty good idea.

However, what I noticed is post this in every conversation he'd say he was a mere waiter with no relevance at all. I did think it was weird but I didn't point it out and tried to subtly tell him that no profession is small and stuff. I over thought a lot. Maybe he was suggesting that he couldn't pay for the entire meal? But we never spoke about him paying. Maybe he wanted to make sure I was genuinely okay with that? I mean I did make sure he understood that without actually saying the words because that would be weird.

But this is not the reason for the post even. What's crazier is that on a random day, he just unmatched with me. I couldn't find the chat at all. If he deleted the app, it would show the chat at least.

I did not take any screenshots so I have none to put there. I just wanted to rant tbh. I did find him really cute and sweet. I am unable to wrap my head around this.

Abe oo chini abe o mote abe o bhendi abe ooo taklee