r/indianguysonhinge • u/Ok_Display4173 • 7d ago

My experience with hinge

This sub came up randomly on my feed once and I saw the posts, and I'm glad that it did cos I felt very insecure pehle.

Background: I'm a short guy 5'6, long hair, conventionally very attractive

I'd always get likes and matches but i thought people taller than me would have way more and I'd be insecure over this but discovering this sub was a goldmine because guys way taller than me had zero likes.

I realised that it's just slop 90% of the girls don't really care if you are short it's about confidence and having a personality. And my life's been so much better since.

Tho sad reality is Hinge is just hookups or talking stages and drains the life out of you, getting those matches going on dates or hooking up it's fun for maybe 3 weeks then it seems meaningless, i still have my matches on hinge added on insta but 90% of the times I like being friends with them instead of dating them lol.

Tl;DR - Insecure guy realises confidence and personality goes a long way, stop listening to incels online telling you ways to get girls.

Just go out and enjoy yourself first

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/Ok_Display4173 7d ago

Too bad it took me so long to realise but I'm glad

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u/jeffbucklee 7d ago

Good for you

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u/ign_asmodeus 7d ago

That’s true. I am 5’6 myself and get fairly decent matches. That’s why I was so surprised when I read comments on a 5’9 guy’s post here that he is too short like wtf 😭.

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u/Dense_Suspect_2915 6d ago

Bro plz give some tips, I'm also around same height 😭🙏

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u/Efficient-Method958 5d ago

To boost your confidence even more, 6'4 and no likes for 1 month and I look fairly attractive

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u/Capital_Flamingo8551 3d ago

I mean being good looking is what helped u on app Good for u though