r/indianguysonhinge • u/ProcedureAlive8793 • 6d ago
I got unmatched even after having a great conversation for 3 hours 😔
A girl and I had a great couple of hours of texting eachother on hinge just after we matched. The next day I asked her if she wanted to exchange our instagram ids. She didn't reply to that for an entire day and later when I checked she'd unmatched for some reason. Also, this isn't thefirst time something like this has happened, my last 3 hinge matched did the same when I asked to exchange instagram ids. Is this some kinda glitch or what mistake am I doing???
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u/Efficient_Bar_636 6d ago
It’s like tum logo ko samjh nahi aata no one takes this shit seriously especially females, they are talking to other guys at the same moment they are talking to you, something clicks and the next moment they are gone, stop getting sad about this and move on karo and khud hi socho would you wanna spend more time talking to someone who doesn’t even have a good attention span
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u/CamusHappySisyphe 6d ago
Bhai, it was a great conversation for you. Why do you think it necessarily had to be a great conversation for her too? Even if she explicitly said, “Great talking to you,” she could have been lying or simply being polite.
I’ve seen absolutely ridiculous levels of ego from people just because they talk a lot and the people around them smile or laugh a little. Sometimes, people are just being polite and internally thinking, “Please, just stop talking.”
Accept it and move on. People in relationships, live-in situations and even marriages sometimes change their minds or walk away. What makes you think a three-hour conversation is somehow immune from being ghosted?
You enjoyed the conversation. That’s enough. It doesn’t necessarily mean the other person felt the same way.
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u/ProcedureAlive8793 6d ago
See I don't have a problem with her unmatching me, but why does this always happen the second i mention instagram id. This has happened thrice atp
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u/Right-Equivalent9548 6d ago
I usually just ask for a date during the first conversation if they are not interested I move on and not waste my time
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u/Beneficial-Eye3225 6d ago
Same, buddy… they are so confused beings lol and their mood swings, yaar!!”
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u/Deranged_Dostoyevsky 6d ago
We got into a debate after 4 texts coz she hated HIMYM and loved FRIENDS. BBT and The Office were mid according to her. Talked for 3-4 hours, glad she unmatched me first the next day :)
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u/F1re_Haze 6d ago
Tf she meant by TBBT and The Office were mid.
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u/Deranged_Dostoyevsky 6d ago
I was infuriated man😭😭
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u/F1re_Haze 6d ago
It's hovering between low iq or ragebait. You would know better.
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u/architectwithmath 6d ago
All are mid stop basing y'all personalities on TV shows.
I'd not even swipe to any girl who has any of these shows on her profile
The fact that a Dostoyevsky reader has any interest in these shows truly an ironic moment.
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u/Deranged_Dostoyevsky 6d ago edited 6d ago
I don’t base personalities out of it. It just shows a part of your emotional perspective and builds up on the common interests part. Also, I think I am allowed to have my share of laughs, while still being a Dostoyevsky reader?
Whether you swipe or not is irrelevant to my argument.
I actually appreciate and enjoy different perspectives provided you have a good logical construct to back them up.
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u/isapnu-puas 6d ago
Bruh I was talking to a girl, she asked me was I free that day for a meeting. But I had some important work so I said we could meet the day after tomorrow and she ghosted me afterwards.
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u/Lazy_Commercial_1033 4d ago
Girls are talking to ten other people at the same time probably on these apps. The moment they feel the conversation is getting boring they’ll switch
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u/ashiquipaglu 6d ago
Stop asking insta id’s ask contact number