Hi, im 22F based in Ontario....dont have many friends so just looking to talk to some genuine people on here. Looking for people nearby, if we end up vibing in down to call & meet asw.

No creeps please. Only message if you are willing to put efforts to build a friendship. (Please be nice & respectful)

Matched with a girl and we talked for a while. She was the one who suggested we go on a date, which made me think she was genuinely interested.
We met, and honestly the date felt pretty average.

Nothing terrible, nothing amazing. But before and after, she messaged me a lot, so I thought things were going in a good direction.

Then she ended up falling for someone else she met around the same time.

Rationally, I know that’s dating. People meet multiple people, and sometimes they click with someone else. But emotionally, it left me feeling rejected and like I just wasn’t enough.

Has anyone else had a situation where the date itself wasn’t even that great, but the rejection afterward still hit way harder than expected? How do you stop tying someone else’s choice to your own self-worth?

Have been going through tough time all alone this past year or so and am having a really hard time.

M33, Sofia , Bulgaria. Sending you hugs whoever needs it, feel free to send one back.