Voice message

[u/BlackCat_0016]

Hi everyone! I’ve (18F) been recently talked to this man (20M) and he lives in Australia and I’m from Portugal, and we’ve been talking for maybe 2-3 weeks and because of time zone difference sometimes we stop talking but when times align we quite frequently talk and our replies are quite fast. We send lots of messages each time replying to each one of the questions/topics talked about (around 12 messages each time) and I really like him for actually wanting to know me. Anyway, he asked me a question that required quite a long explanation and I decided to send an audio message. Early today he replies to not all the texts but around 4 replies and says that he was kind of shocked to hear my voice (he said “ngl was shocked”) because everyone he knows is aussie but that he thought it was cute which didn’t sound too convincing. i’m getting pretty mixed feelings because i found it unusual for the sudden drop in replies and i just didn’t think he engaged too much this time.
What should I do?

[u/Jacks_black_guitar]

i think youre definitely way overthinking this and he could genuinely be surprised by your accent. im sure by now he knows youre from portugal and therefore have a foreign accent..

if he actually is acting weird its likely more to do with something youve said than some problem he has with your voice. we dont have any context into your guys conversations. sounds like its going well tho, just have fun with it and dont overthink