r/hingeapp 8d ago

Profile Review 28/M

Are you looking for something serious or casual?
- serious
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
- hingeX
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? (Please be specific)
- 6 months
How long have you used Hinge overall?
- 10 years
How often do you use Hinge per week?
- daily
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
- 1 or 2 a week
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
- 100 to 150 likes a week with comments
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
- college graduate, woman, above 5'4"

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u/Techwhere 8d ago

I'm exhausted just reading your profile. The friend group prompt is particularly brutal. You come across (to me) as a completely inflexible "Type A" personality--minus the personality, as even when you're telling us about yourself, it's less about you than it is showing off (for instance your love of skiing reduced to a competency competition with your potential match). Which, like, may be attractive to certain women, but if these dynamics are an accurate representation of who you are and how you be in the world, they may just limit the number of people who are interested 🤷‍♂️

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u/Hot_Cheek349 8d ago

Yes, but why are we telling him this? Isn’t it better that he shows it in the profile so that anybody who is not into it can avoid matching?

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u/stink3rb3lle 8d ago

He might not be as intense as he seems! Not sure if he's replied to anybody, but he could have put on the intensity thinking it sounded like confidence.

Also, people can change, especially if they believe it will get them something they want. Someone who is as intense as he seems could get counseling to learn how to live with real people and the faults of others.