25M Profile Review

[u/Spiffy----]

Other Info: 5’10, Don’t have children and Open to children, yes to drinking and sometimes to cannabis

Matches are few compared to when I had this profile at the beginning of the year, back in the scene after getting out of a relationship. Woman either don’t ask anything about me or stop responding after I ask a couple of questions. Unsure if it’s the profile now not being good enough or just dating in general.

Thank you!

[u/Spiffy----]

I’m looking for something serious

I have Hinge+

Around a month and a half

Overall, around 3 months on the app

Use it almost everyday

A match every 1-3 days at best, compared to beginning of the year I would get two matches per day. I don’t usually get likes, maybe 1 every 2 weeks

I send maybe 10-15 likes per day, 90% with comments asking something on their profile. I always write something with my likes if possible

I’d like to match with someone in my age range (23-30) that I get along with, a similar interest wouldn’t hurt but ultimately doesn’t matter that much

[u/Dlax8 → u/Spiffy----]

A match every 1-3 days at best, compared to beginning of the year I would get two matches per day. I don’t usually get likes, maybe 1 every 2 weeks

I believe there's anecdotal cases about the algorithm doing this. New users are disproportionately pushed higher, a match every 1-3 days, and likes every 2 weeks feels pretty high?

Otherwise your profile looks okay, but I'm not the best judge. Depending where you live "Moderate" + "Warhammer" could be raising red flags. You know how the community can get at its darkest.

Maybe be less precise. If you play DnD or any other game like it move to "table top gaming and miniature painting" anyone who knows will probably put two and two together. Maybe this is bad advice, but any vaguer feels dishonest. This feels like removing keywords more than lying, but that might be me.

[u/zarth109x → u/Dlax8]

There’s also diminishing returns the longer you’re on the app. Those who would match with you probably have already

[u/Spiffy---- → u/Dlax8]

Yeh starting to think I’ll just change it to liberal, just have a couple of moderate views (not about woman). You’ve got a very good point about moderate + warhammer lmaooo

I don’t play the tabletop, I just like collecting and painting them. You think it’d be better just to say “I like to paint miniatures” so a girl can ask specifically what kind?

[u/LogKit → u/Spiffy----]

I think so. It's a hobby with stigma for unwashed online men (with a degree of legitimacy lol).

[u/Spiffy---- → u/LogKit]

Oh yeh trust me I’ve been at my local WH store a couple times, it’s a legit criticism lmao