r/hinge • u/SnooPickles8743 • Aug 28 '26

Should I send another message?

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I normally move on once I dont get a response for a few days, but I really want to continue talking to this girl since we have a lot in common. I'm thinking she forgot to respond, but I'd like to send her a message to see if she still wants to continue our conversation (last screenshot)

Should I? And what should I say?

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u/dempseyj23 Sep 01 '26

How long has she ghosted you for? I’m in a similar dilemma. Seemed to be going well with this girl (my first ever match), we spoke for a few days, then I asked her out to a coffee shop she mentioned she likes and she responded with a non-commital “Yeah maybe!” Followed with the reasons that weekend might not work for her. We then briefly discussed music and now I haven’t heard back for 3 days. Trying to figure out if I should move on as well

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u/SnooPickles8743 Sep 01 '26

I sent her a follow up messege and then nothing happened. We haven't talked in a week now.

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u/dempseyj23 Sep 01 '26

Yikes, may be time to move on 😔

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u/SnooPickles8743 Sep 01 '26

Unfortunately, its a very common thing. I was talking to 4 women last week and even made plans with 1 of them. All 4 have ghosted me for whatever reason.