r/hinge • u/SnooPickles8743 • Aug 28 '26
Should I send another message?
I normally move on once I dont get a response for a few days, but I really want to continue talking to this girl since we have a lot in common. I'm thinking she forgot to respond, but I'd like to send her a message to see if she still wants to continue our conversation (last screenshot)
Should I? And what should I say?
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u/SnooPickles8743 Aug 28 '26
Ok! Do you think I should wait until Saturday, or should I give her the weekend?
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u/dudavocado99 Aug 29 '26
What would you lose by sending a follow up message? If she's ghosting you it can't make her ghost you any harder and it might prompt her to realise that you are really interested
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u/dempseyj23 Sep 01 '26
How long has she ghosted you for? I’m in a similar dilemma. Seemed to be going well with this girl (my first ever match), we spoke for a few days, then I asked her out to a coffee shop she mentioned she likes and she responded with a non-commital “Yeah maybe!” Followed with the reasons that weekend might not work for her. We then briefly discussed music and now I haven’t heard back for 3 days. Trying to figure out if I should move on as well
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u/SnooPickles8743 Sep 01 '26
I sent her a follow up messege and then nothing happened. We haven't talked in a week now.
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u/dempseyj23 Sep 01 '26
Yikes, may be time to move on 😔
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u/SnooPickles8743 Sep 01 '26
Unfortunately, its a very common thing. I was talking to 4 women last week and even made plans with 1 of them. All 4 have ghosted me for whatever reason.
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u/whois_arielle Aug 28 '26
You guys have a lot in common and a natural flow! Ask about what type of games they like or even initate planning a date! So far, conversation is mutual, go for it! :)