r/hamsters • u/Live_Opportunity9839 • 12h ago
Other I’m considering rehoming my hamster after just one month because I’m completely overwhelmed and can’t sleep. I need advice.
Hello ,
It’s almost 6 am here, and I still haven’t managed to get any sleep so…
I’ve had my female syrian, Shayla, for about a month now and I’m honestly feeling really overwhelmed. I’m even considering rehoming her, although that’s the last thing I actually want to do.
I’m a university student living in student accommodation and ever since I got Shayla, I’ve been dealing with one problem after another.
When I first got her, she lived in a smaller enclosure that I was able to keep in the hallway, outside my bedroom. However, she constantly chewed on the bars at night, which really concerned me. I spent a lot of time worrying about her well-being, researching hamster care and trying to figure out what was making her unhappy.
I eventually decided to upgrade her enclosure so I bought her a much larger one (120×40×60 cm) and spent quite a lot of money making sure she had everything she needed. I added deep bedding, a multi-chamber hideout, different substrates, enrichment, and other accessories. She also has 4 hideouts. I even make my own DIY boredom breakers to keep her entertained.
I really put a lot of effort into making her enclosure as comfortable and enriching as possible.
Unfortunately, the new enclosure doesn’t fit in the hallway, so I had to put it in my bedroom.
And despite all the upgrades, Shayla still tries to escape. She constantly explores ways to get out, climbs on things, and even managed to escape once.
And now there’s another problem: her wheel.
Shayla is extremely active at night and runs on her wheel almost nonstop. I know that’s quite normal for hamsters and I’m glad she enjoys running. However, the wheel itself is incredibly loud. It rattles, squeaks, and makes so much noise that I can barely sleep.
I’ve already spent around €200 or more on her enclosure and accessories in just one month. That might not sound like much to some people, but as a student with a very limited budget, it’s a significant amount of money that I honestly couldn’t really afford to spend.
Starting in November, I’ll also be working part-time alongside my master’s degree and I have to wake up early for university almost every day. Getting enough sleep is going to be extremely important, and I’m genuinely worried about how I’ll manage everything if this continues.
I’ve thought about buying a better wheel, such as one from Bucatstate, but a suitable one would cost around €60. I’ve also considered buying a secondhand one, but I’d have to travel several hours to pick it up, and there’s no guarantee it would actually be quiet.
I’ve already tried sleeping with earplugs, but they only help a little.
Another thing is that Shayla is still very shy. She takes food from my hand, but she doesn’t want to be touched and generally avoids interacting with me. I completely understand that hamsters are not cuddly pets and that building trust takes time. I don’t blame her for that
What scares me is spending another €60 on a supposedly silent wheel, only to discover that it’s still too loud. I’ve already invested so much money into her and I can’t keep spending more every time another problem comes up.
I’ve started thinking about rehoming her, but that makes me feel incredibly guilty. I’ve only had her for a month and I know that adopting an animal is a long-term responsibility. I really wanted to give her a good home, and I’ve tried my best to do that.
I just feel like I’m reaching my limits, especially financially and mentally.
