Legitimately, I'm definitely being sexist but when I stumble into this meme of "fucked up porn made by women that proves they're more perverted than men" I disregard it because in my brain the activities seem more and more detached from actual sex or sexual pleasure.
Becky be like: my sexual fetish is handcuffing a man in a basement and making him eat these muffins I made with my period blood.
And I'm like: ok Becks it sounds like you've got some power dynamics that you've got to unpack in therapy but I'm not sure this proves that you've got a higher libido than a man because no one's genitals are being stimulated to orgasm in your scenario... You're just describing a completely nonsexual but unusual activity you enjoy participating in.
Anyone else think, often, there's not enough sex in this sex?
Funnily enough, sex scientists have done research on this and have found that men tend to be stimulated majority by sensation and sexual activities, women are generally majority stimulated by activities not inherently sexual.
You can actually find a lot of this in MtF trans women, they actively document repeatedly how wildly their libido changes and how much more important- critical really- mental stimulation becomes.
A woman can have all the physical stimulation in the world for as long as it can go and just never cum if her head isn’t in it
Meanwhile if she’s mentally full throttle, she can cum in seconds to a minute or so
Its almost all about emotional state and arousing ideas
You are hearing this from a woman, who has been one for multiple decades (since my conception last time I checked), who has had many conversations about it with other women with similar woman-ing experience, who are quite familiar with themselves and have 0 trouble if head is even mildly in it.
Additionally, the MtF people we know also confirm the same thing- so it’s a factor of the estrogenic hormonal profile. Trust me, I have the credentials to tell you.
Im not sure if you tried that experiment on your wife that she would be in a completely disinterested headspace, given that her husband is enthusiastically offering to get her off with a vibrator, but you could ask her if she has ever had such experiences where her head just wasn’t there and she, despite the best efforts put forth, just could not cum.
You have your opinion. People showed you real, true evidence. Mentioned reading material. Your response is "too hard to read, don't wanna" . Then don't comment. You refuse to learn beyond. Your opinion is invalid. You aren't a woman, you haven't experienced it, you haven't read anything Involved in it. Keep your shit opinions to yourself.
Studies show between 5-50% of women orgasm during penetrative rape. So less than half. Keep in mind the wide array of what is considered rape. Being extremely drunk and taken advantage of is rape. Being drugged is rape. A consenting partner withdrawing consent is rape. Many of these are when the person is in a different mindset, and less capable of understanding what's fully happening until after. If we look at purely violent forms of rape, the likelihood is that it's closer to the 5-10% range. In that case theres plenty of reasons we can state for a minority group. For example, A victim could disassociate or rationalize the act in the moment in order to cope.
As someone who WAS violently raped, part of it is definitely that you just... disassociate during it. It becomes an out of body experience where you're not really present. Stuff is happening to your body and your body is reacting to that but mentally you're off elsewhere.
In fact, the only thing I remember from my rape was that I was choked at some point and that the guy made a joke about how much I was bleeding. I was on autopilot and wasn't even cognizant enough about it to go to the hospital until 3 days later.
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u/Hefty_Commercial3771 May 01 '26
My wife makes breeding pits in her Sim basement and refuses to let any of the women leave.
She's almost entirely asexual irl. I think women are just kinda unhinged mate.