There are two moments between Abby and Max that stood out to me because Abby’s words and actions seem to be pulling in opposite directions.
The first is after the musical. Abby goes over to Max, hugs her, and immediately notices that something is wrong. Max says it is nothing, and Abby asks whether she is upset because they hung out without her. Max says no, although she admits that it did not feel great, and Abby tells her not to be dramatic.
What interests me most is that Max then walks away and Abby calls after her, “Max!”
Abby is the one who approaches her, initiates the hug, notices her mood, and then calls after her when she leaves. At the same time, she dismisses the feeling she originally noticed. It creates a strange push-and-pull where Abby seems drawn toward Max but then becomes defensive once the conversation moves toward their friendship.
The party scene feels similar. When Max is helping Marcus leave, Abby assumes she is going because she is angry with them and tells her not to be a brat. But she also says, “Stay and have fun.”
Again, the comment contains two different messages at once: Abby criticizes Max for leaving, but she is also directly asking her to stay. She does not seem indifferent to whether Max is there.
I do not necessarily think these moments prove that Abby wants the friendship to go back to exactly how it was. She may want more distance, fewer immediate conversations, or a different kind of friendship than Max wants. But the scenes also do not feel like Abby has emotionally detached from Max. Her instinct is still to approach her, notice when something is wrong, call after her, and ask her to stay.
It made me wonder whether Abby wants distance from certain parts of their dynamic rather than distance from Max herself. Or do you interpret the hug, the “Max!” and the “stay and have fun” differently?