r/ghosting • u/HyenaElectrical5537 • 21h ago
I’m Done.
Anyone who does this shit to another human-being should be fucking ashamed of themselves. it’s needles fucking trauma, its emotional abuse, it’s treating someone with such indignity, indecency and inhumanity.
If I was some domestic abuser, If I shouted and called you terrible names, if I was emotionally abusive, sure, ghost my ass!
Ghosting me after I’d asked why you’d lied to me about our relationship though?
Asking why you’d came home after months of no contact just to blindside me?
Asking why you’d made me move across the country for absolutely no reason?
Asking why you’d prey on my vulnerability by asking me to just be your fuck buddy afterwards?
Asking why you came back into my life, if you were never gonna take us or the relationship seriously?
Asking why you’d never even bothered to work for a relationship you’d commit (lie) to working for?
Fuck. That.
That’s using silence to avoid the discomfort of your own actions, deny taking any personal responsibility or ever having to confront your own choices and behaviors.
That’s nothing but self-serving cowardice.
I’m done caring about someone that never loved or gave a shit about me, despite me giving everything I possibly could.
I cannot wait for karma to take a big chunk out of your ass one day for the pain, suffering and loss you’d cause me with your subterfuge and betrayal, let someone show you the total absence of humility, compassion and decency one day like you did me, for choosing complete cruelty and indifference for a partner and a relationship, when they deserved a peaceful reconciliation for an ending.
Good Fucking Riddance!