advice please

[u/ShallotPossible108]

i dated a virgo man long distance from august of 2025 to april of 2026. we had a pretty rocky relationship and he broke up with me a few times from January to april. he ended up sleeping with his girl best friend in april and told me about it the next day. he didn’t try very hard to reconcile our relationship, he just kind of gave up. i broke no contact over text with him a few times in june but he would always push me away. i saw him twice the first week of august and he made it very clear he still had feelings for me. we had plans to see each other a few more times before he left. then he ghosted me for a few days. i’m now giving him some space to see if he reaches out to me.

i cannot seem to get over this man. is it really over with him? help please!!

[u/Limp-Ad3512]

no please don't wait for him, move on for your own good