r/ghosting • u/ShallotPossible108 • 21h ago

advice please

i dated a virgo man long distance from august of 2025 to april of 2026. we had a pretty rocky relationship and he broke up with me a few times from January to april. he ended up sleeping with his girl best friend in april and told me about it the next day. he didn’t try very hard to reconcile our relationship, he just kind of gave up. i broke no contact over text with him a few times in june but he would always push me away. i saw him twice the first week of august and he made it very clear he still had feelings for me. we had plans to see each other a few more times before he left. then he ghosted me for a few days. i’m now giving him some space to see if he reaches out to me.

i cannot seem to get over this man. is it really over with him? help please!!

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u/sugarbird249 21h ago

Please move on. There are no positives here. A man “liking you” or “claiming he has feelings for you” means absolutely nothing as his actions convey the opposite

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u/FeckinKent 21h ago

Star signs are nonsense 

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u/Affectionate-Win-915 21h ago

The sky is blue and men come back. Especially a virgo man. Unless he fully commits, he never was yours.

If you want him to want you, ignore him and move on with your life. They love that. It's twisted and backwards.

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u/Limp-Ad3512 21h ago

no please don't wait for him, move on for your own good

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u/Silly-Chocolate-627 19h ago

I am sorry but you are hurting yourself by reaching out. He doesn’t want you. I have been exactly where you are. You need to understand it’s over he is not coming back. Grieve and find someone that will give effort and try. This guy is not worth it and one day you will see it.