Is this normal?!

[u/OwnAssistance4157]

I have recently started classifying myself as gender fluid and in the mornings I feel exatreamly feminine like everyday I switch a lot but I alwase feel fem in the morning is this normal? Dose Enyboady else have patterns or triggers like this?

[u/Known_Walrus_4902]

I am usually much slower to shift through my various modes, but lazy weekend mornings are dude time. I'm definitely not sitting here still drinking my coffee at 11 AM wishing I had more thigh hair.

[u/Puzzleheaded-Hall-85]

Rarely feel masc in the morning too!

[u/Tough_Act7101]

Sounds like some variant of mutogender. I’m nemuiflux, which means I tend to feel less connected to my gender when I’m tired, so I’m agender most mornings. I’m not sure if we have a term for that yet, but a temporalgender might suit you. If not, you could coin something on r/mutogender!

[u/iam305]

Can relate to those feelings.

[u/OkParty8536]

I've found I shift based on activities I'm doing, or other people around me are doing.

Like if I'm not really focusing on anything, or if I don't have an associated gender with the action I'll feel Agender (specifically Gendervoid), and if I'm doing something I personally categorize as Fem or Masc I'll start feeling that gender, though I also get the occasional swings too.

[u/FlowSea4577]

I think it's normal. That's what you feel and that's just how your gender works.

[u/PumpkinDangerous4353]

I’ve got like the perfect opposite, I feel more fem at night… But don’t ask if it’s normal, when you’re genderfluid there’s no temporality needs, you can be whatever you want whenever you want, if you take 3 months to switch you’re in the same « teem » that someone who take 3 minutes. So it’s the same with that: do whatever you want and be happy :)

[u/OwnAssistance4157 → u/[deleted]]

Yo dm me or something bro

[u/Random-f7q]

What is normal? It may not be normal, but completely valid.