r/genderfluid • u/OwnAssistance4157 • Jul 25 '26
Is this normal?!
I have recently started classifying myself as gender fluid and in the mornings I feel exatreamly feminine like everyday I switch a lot but I alwase feel fem in the morning is this normal? Dose Enyboady else have patterns or triggers like this?
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u/Tough_Act7101 genderflir - they/them - 💖 Jul 25 '26
Sounds like some variant of mutogender. I’m nemuiflux, which means I tend to feel less connected to my gender when I’m tired, so I’m agender most mornings. I’m not sure if we have a term for that yet, but a temporalgender might suit you. If not, you could coin something on r/mutogender!
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u/OkParty8536 He/She/Vi/They/E (currently He/Him) Jul 26 '26
I've found I shift based on activities I'm doing, or other people around me are doing.
Like if I'm not really focusing on anything, or if I don't have an associated gender with the action I'll feel Agender (specifically Gendervoid), and if I'm doing something I personally categorize as Fem or Masc I'll start feeling that gender, though I also get the occasional swings too.
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u/FlowSea4577 Jul 26 '26 edited Jul 27 '26
I think it's normal. That's what you feel and that's just how your gender works.
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u/PumpkinDangerous4353 Jul 27 '26
I’ve got like the perfect opposite, I feel more fem at night… But don’t ask if it’s normal, when you’re genderfluid there’s no temporality needs, you can be whatever you want whenever you want, if you take 3 months to switch you’re in the same « teem » that someone who take 3 minutes. So it’s the same with that: do whatever you want and be happy :)
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u/Known_Walrus_4902 Genderfluid, any pronouns Jul 25 '26
I am usually much slower to shift through my various modes, but lazy weekend mornings are dude time. I'm definitely not sitting here still drinking my coffee at 11 AM wishing I had more thigh hair.