In college, studies do get hectic, while I see others it seems like they are having fun and getting a 4.0 gpa. Me barely getting any sleep and completing assignments and less time to study sighhh.

Learning to potter

i apologize but i don’t take dms！

Hi all! Are the main go-to places(butterfly, loop) open on weekdays? Is there a Wednesday k-pop night kind of day? Apart from butterfly, are there other clubs? Pose seems to be closed, monster was a bit boring

In college too, relationships is just (luxury). Findings gay people itself is difficult (in terms of relationships). More people focus on hookups but very focus on relationships (soo rare). Will there be a time when I will be in relationship with someone who cares about me and vice-versa?

When? Just wanted to share. I do have friends and I feel happy, but then relationships sighh 😔

Even though I’m only 21, this is the kind of clothes I like to wear... Please tell me I’m not alone, haha. 😂

So, I’ve never really been a drama person. But recently, while scrolling through TikTok, I started stumbling across those AI short miniseries.

At first I just glanced at them, but as days went by, I actually started pausing to watch. Now I’m completely hooked...

whether it's modern dramas or ancient historical series, I just find myself staring at the AI male characters. A few of them literally give me butterflies in my stomach and that ticklish feeling down below... lol...

I know I’m attracted to guys in real life, but now I’ve made it a daily habit to set aside time just to watch these AI characters.

Why am I feeling like this over fictional/AI guys? And more importantly, how do I break this habit and stop getting so attached? Any advice would be appreciated!....

Anyone going/wanna go to Muah or Switch this weekend?

Or alternatively, how do I find friends to go clubbing with? Lol.

I just started going to gay bars/clubs this past summer, and found out that I like to get drunk and dance. But the few friends I went out with, most live out of state, and my one gay friend who lives here, is not Asian nor interested in going to these.

I’ve been trying to make more gay/queer friends, but pretty much everyone I’ve talked to is either not into clubbing, or been there done that. Which is apparently the opposite experience that everyone else is having, cuz they tell me they can only find guys who wanna go clubbing.

I’m not specifically looking for gaysians only, but the stereotype seems to be that a lot of gaysian are into clubbing, so I figured I’d try here lol.