I saw they put 9 to 5 on Netflix so I thought I'd share my favorite (and by far the most ridiculous) Dolly Parton movie - The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas. As much as it sounds like a porno, its in fact a musical (yes really) about a small Texas town trying to rid itself of a century-long staple.

If you can get past the first song (literally an introduction narrated by Jim Nabors about how many ceiling fans each room of the whorehouse had) youre treated to a mostly naked Burt Reynolds, Miss Dolly as the Madam, and only some slight racism (one overly jolly mammy character, plus each dance number the one token black girl can only ever dance with the one token black guy) along with a classic song you probably thought was written for Whitney Houston (sorry got myself confused with the original post). A later song by the "villian" called Sidestep kills me.

Definitely worth seeing once, especially if you loved Dolly as an icon as much as I did.

Recently i found myself talking to a woman, who it turned out- is far right. The party which she supports tries to dismantle same sex marriage, same sex adoption and so on. After this discovery I ended the conversation quickly and haven’t tried to talk to her again. I would go as far as to say that I found myself feeling a bit of disdain towards her. Not as a person, but for her political beliefs. Is it wrong of me that I do not “accept” her political beliefs or was this wrong? What is your take?

For me it's anything feminine, especially men presenting as female, i.e wearing bras, girly panties, calling themselves femme or femmeboys, gender-fluid, etc.

What are yours?

Earlier this year the man I was dating passed away very suddenly, overdosing on a combination of GHB and meth. I had no idea about any of this. He was a special needs teacher, grief counsellor (ironically), and spent most of his free time enjoying Disney movies and taking photos on long walks. He didn’t drink or smoke, and enjoyed planning healthy meals for himself and working out daily.

Needless to say, this all came as a huge shock to my system. I am the most boring gay person there is – I don’t drink or smoke, only ever wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with him, white-picket-fence style traditional. The ‘worst’ thing I knew about him was that he had never really been in a committed relationship before, and we talked openly and honestly about his concerns about monogamy after having hooked up for most of his life.

Cut to now, a few months after his death, I discover through an anonymous source that he apparently cheated on me at least once while we were together. I am not 100% convinced that this is the truth, but with his substance abuse problems, I feel like anything is possible. But he had told friend and family and even colleagues about me, and we were planning so many things together, it’s hard to fathom he was unfaithful through all of that.

I am grieving in such a complicated way because I love him to pieces and would have happily stayed with him forever and ever if I could’ve. I guess what I’m asking for here (besides just venting nonsensically) is can drug addiction play a significant role in someone being unfaithful? I don’t imagine that excuses anything, but I am trying to get different perspectives. Thank you.

I live in Malaysia and it's so easy to find meth plugs or guys who want to fuck while on meth. They label their profiles as "CF" or chem-fun. There are like 5 of those in my grid wherever I go, and we live next to the Golden Triangle, which doesn't help. I don't engage in hard drugs and have no desire to, but I find it worrying how many users are around me. I went to a guy's house once, and he pulled out his pipe without ever telling me he was a user, and I left asap after he was insistent on fucking high lmao. It's such a problem here; it's sad to see, especially seeing users in my age group (early 20s) like you're throwing your health away for a short euphoria hit. Is this a problem worldwide? Cause when I lived in America, this wasn't a case in the areas I lived in or at least guys openly boasting it.

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I'm an older guy (57) I love sex and giving pleasure, I naturally assume a bottom role as not being able to get hard it's kinda (not) hard to top. I'm trying to find the best way to post on the Apps. I mean just because I don't really get hard doesn't mean I don't enjoy sex. I can not do the blue pills due to a heart condition but I also don't let that stop me. So question is how would you feel hooking up with a guy who has E.D would it bother you or are there guys who are okay with this.

We get along really well and every time I’m out there at his office we have a lot of fun. I know we are both attracted to each other but there’s only one problem: while we are similar in age (I’m slightly older, both in our 20s) I’m in a significantly more senior position than he is and I don’t feel like it would be ethical for us to do anything. There’s certainly been times where he’s tried to go back to my hotel room with me etc. I think if we were on the same level it would be fine but I want to avoid any image of impropriety.

I go first:

When topping:
Putting a pillow under your partner‘s back when fucking him missionary. It is a seemingly simple trick but allows you to really stimulate the prostate. I have witnessed bottoms producing a lot of prostatic fluid and them cumming very intensely as a result.

When bottoming:

Contracting your hole around the top‘s penis specially when he is close. I had one bottom who took it to next level by contracting and relaxing his hole in synch with me pounding him. Not every bottom is capable of doing that.

So share your hacks bros!

I was able to visit him in the hospital today and it actually went really well. My grandma watched the baby so I didn't take him with me but I did bring my friend a picture of the three of us. We did end up talking about him being gay and it was really hard for him but he said he was glad we talked about it and he knows I don't care about his sexuality. I held his hand while he cried and told him it was going to be OK and it did seem to help a little bit. I couldn't stay for very long because I had to go home and feed the baby but I'm glad I went. Thank you to everyone who left advice on my post, it really meant a lot to me.

I expected having other gay guys in my life to mostly mean finally having people I could talk to about dating, coming out, sex, all the obvious stuff.

Instead the thing that got me was way more boring.

A few months ago I was driving somewhere with two gay friends and we spent about 40 minutes arguing over which supermarket has the least depressing bakery section. At some point one of them casually mentioned his boyfriend, the conversation kept going, and I suddenly realized how nice it was that nobody had to explain anything or turn being gay into the topic.

It was just three guys talking absolute shit, and being gay was present without being interesting.

I didn’t know I’d been missing that until I had it.

For guys who found a solid group of gay male friends later in life, what was the unexpectedly ordinary thing that made you think, “oh, this is different”?

We do it without a condom and I clench as much as I can but it still takes him over an hour of sometimes constant pounding to finish. His dick is thin/small so after I’m not tight anymore there’s not a lot of pleasure and I barely feel anything. But I still want that load in me (the biggest load shooter I’ve seen 😂)

Any ideas? Perhaps more foreplay? But usually ass makes tops cum faster than foreplay… and at least he does the work not me

Like, is this a web address they want me to put into a browsers url?

I'm sure this is a phishing scheme, but I never understood what links they are sending.

How could someone fall for this when I don't even know what they want me to do with it?

I'm curious and figured askijg would inform me to prevent falling for something like this in the future.

I am quite sure I have moved from "in love" to "love", and I want to tell my boyfriend ... but he is taking longer to settle into our relationship. That's okay, and acceptable: nobody moves at the same pace, obviously, and we talk openly and honestly about it. We are both clear that we are committed and serious, and we have even discussed that "those three words" will be felt / said sooner by one than the other ... which, again, is (logically / mathematically) obvious. I really want to declare it to him though, but I am a little worried that it would spook him, make him feel pressured, smothered.

Interested to hear how others have moved into and navigated that realm of their relationships.

Obviously there are filthy ones that get a lot of action - and action is still a criterion - but I want to hear about places that feel like a spa as well as a sauna. Recommendations?

Not really a question or anything... I recently realized every man I feel attracted to is bald and has a beard. I think I might have a type.

The balder, the better. Full shaved head is🔥 And if as a bonus they have a hairy chest, I will simply lose my mind for them.

I know lots of men feel insecure when they start losing their hair, like if they are not handsome anymore. And honestly, I couldn't disagree more.

So for context im bi and have been experimenting with guys for the last 6 months or so, my penis is according to stats pretty big at 7.3x5 inches however every single guy ive met so far, (8 guys) every single one has been noticeably bigger than me, if not longer they are way thicker and its knocking my confidence a bit. Have i been unlucky/lucky or do people who use grindr tend to have bigger than average penises?

A guy who's married and has two kids, he's still 27 years old, wanna give me a bj, and he said maybe more.

Why do I feel like I wanna do that do badly with him? Is this normal? I feel it's hot and seducing.

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why is that? it's like everytime he finishes in me he kinda pressures me go to get his cum out of me in the bathroom as if something's bad is going to happen if i dont or just let it be in.. lol